The Life & Journey of a Working Artiste

How to Sustain (and Survive) the Festive Cheer like an Artiste and made it look Effortlessly Easy (ahem)

2012-01-24T01:27:00.001+08:00

Arduous Journey Ahead?
Chinese New Year is here. And everyone (almost) are back to their families. There's always some degree of "stress" when coming to visit a family home. What's more if you have appeared on TV or some other forms of media where your family members might recognise you? This year I am going to Klang, since it's the nearest place from KL. The journey started from KL Sentral, where I will go to the komuter station to take the train. Surprisingly, now the train coach is divided between the male and female. I noticed this to be really discriminatory. At one point, I noticed a policeman stationing at the train, shushing the men from entering the "Female-Only Coach". What is this? Enough already some simple jobs even men cannot apply like receptionist, now this?

No Man's Land
So I went and search for the "Men Only Coach" sign and there were none! I have to assume that space without the "Female-Only Coach " sign belongs to the men. When the train arrived, I rushed in with quite a feeling of indignation. Thankfully, I found a seat. It was facing the opposite side of the moving train, but it was nice for me for I can see and enjoy the view longer as it whizzes by. I saw clouds and more clouds, it happens today to be a clear day. It also gets my mind moving....

Notice the pink "Females Only Coach" sign?
Outrageous.

Looking around me, I notice this coach to have a woman! Why, isn't this the Men-Only Coach? Again, the presence of that lady robbed the other men of their seats. Looks pretty unfair to me. Oh well, scenes like these if left unchecked could turn up to be something of a standard and acceptable form of social norms. You have to nib things at the bud, before it becomes bigger than you can handle.When some form of negativity creeps in me, I have learned to control it and not blow it out of proportion. Here's where I remembered the tips I've always carry with me whenever I have to be with family or in a gathering.

My nephew, Chan Zi Chong at my feet

1) Have an Open Learning Mind
Upon arrival of my uncle and auntie's house, I saw my 2 cousin brothers with their wives already at the table having their lunch. As usual, being the only single there can be quite awkward. So I just smiled and regard myself as some kind of an alien, until one of my cousin brother's wife blurted out the subject of seeing me acting in one local Malay drama. My uncle's side is actually a very typical Chinese family. The men really do seldom talk among themselves, but the women is totally the opposite. They shared, laughed, practically do most of the communication outside from their immediate family, while the men are very quiet and reserved. An open learning mind comes in when you simply and pull yourself away from you - and observe yourself and others as a "third party", similar to an out-of-body observation.

I noticed one of my cousin, whom was very caring and often played with me, as far as I can remember in my childhood memories. He's the youngest among my 3 cousins - 2 men and a woman. He also has that mischievous streak in him, which most of my other aunties would laugh and adore, just like me. So we're both in the adorable and cute category (and believe me, parents, aunties and uncles DO play favourites!) since we're both the youngest before we've all grown up. But from a distant, I could sense that he has changed, he in turn becomes quite reserved and leave most of the talking to his wife. I love the polite way she behaves and treats a family member, not getting in your way and respecting your small effort when helping in a chore. Very traditional Chinese way a woman behaves in front of the male family member.

A row of wedding potraits to "warn me that I'm next"

2) Have Pride in your current Status and Situation, no matter how good or bad it is
After lunch, a group of my my auntie's side of the family - meaning her sister and her children came over to chat big time, meaning laughing loud, joking and shouting without care. Secretly, I know she came to survey who will be present on the 1st day of Chinese New Year, so as to prepare the amount of money to stuff in the ang pows (red packets, and she's the calculative sort but talks big). My married cousins already been informed by my presence, hence, the preparation on their side is settled and cleared. Being in the midst of my cousins, who are around my age but only a few years older, and seeing all of them married, settled and with children can be very uncomfortable at times. Of course we are all humans, and we tend to feel sorry (maybe a little) of why should we be even celebrating any festive season in the company of others? Then again, especially if you are single, you have to be proud of your status and not shy away from it. The reason is because it's the festive season. Not only for singles, but those who own their business or currently out of work. Even if your business is not going as well as you've hoped for, just be honest about it when asked. You'll feel easier inside to enjoy the festivities when you're honest to others of your situation. Below are the links to my past SUCCESS stories in helping shape my students of all diverse backgrounds and industries to be more HONEST of themselves:
* Full Attendance
* Fashion Students Showcase
* Bigger Class
* Taking Students on Roadshows
* International Students
* Student on Magazine Cover
* Student Casting Session for Real Jobs
* Students Photo Shoot
* Students Performing for Event

Don't bring the whole house!
Just pick ONE "Legitimate Distraction"

3) Bring along a "Legitimate Distraction"
Sometimes it's hard for a person to keep up a cheery face in the presence of others. I've learned now that somehow one needs to bring along a legitimate distraction (like your book, walkman, novels, laptop, tab or smartphone), to pull yourself away from the group. Like my trip to my uncle's side of the family, I brought along the laptop. It's perfectly legitimate because of my work, and I did helped one of my cousin to transfer all his digital photos from the memory card to his USB capsule. If your family have children, then you need to be firm about letting them use your "legitimate distraction". Especially with my cousins' children - 5 girls and 2 boys - can be quite a headache to stave them away from touching your "legitimate distraction". Secretly, I was thankful to God of Prosperity for not letting me buy any latest tablet or smartphone before this Chinese New Year. But it's worth the trouble of stopping these brats from flying around my gadgets like flies, because if you're spending the night, then your legitimate distraction could keep you entertained through those long, boring hours.

My other nephew and nieces

4) Try to Connect with a Relative
I notice a lot of Chinese families, especially the men, can be quite distant with each other. Unlike the female members, where there's plenty of talk, you wouldn't want to stay silent for so long. Try to connect with a relative, could be your cousins, or just about anyone, depending how big the gathering is. As for me, I managed to have a good connection with my eldest cousin and his 3 children. That way, you feel the real meaning of all this so-called family gatherings. I even learned their names already, which I still haven't with the other children. It's interesting to watch how children interact with you, when you know their names. Of course, the children wants something from me in return - my laptop!

This dessert goes up, but it's coming out below

5) Have an In/Out Hearing System
Being single sometimes the worst thing could happen is to have your relative condemning you or pushing you in some way to get married, settled down faster. But in my opinion, getting married and settle down is not for everyone. But you mustn't react too emotionally at what your relatives are saying, for some do feel genuinely. But in my case, it was my auntie's sister that condemned me. I listened politely but immediately I totally forgot about it. During night time, I opened the red packet envelope and found her to be so cheapskate. And I am not exaggerating, she is. So it's worth to clear the tunnels in your left ear to let the flow come out from the right. No point keeping what everybody is saying.

6) Be Creative in Exit Strategy
Sometimes one can have too much of the "good thing". Or when one senses a bad thing is about to crop up, one simply must exit in a polite way before the ugliness rears its head. Speaking from experience, I often find timing is the best. Especially when my cousin asked me what time I want to leave, that's a cue for me to find a legitimate excuse. "Oh, my stomach cramps - must be the food". But in a group of family members, you have to present your back story way ahead in the early stage, so as to give you a leeway when all the "family loving" gets too unbearable. Use this exit strategy, when even your "Legitimate Distraction" is not useful anymore to stave off the nosy relatives who wants a piece of your mind....or worst YOUR ARSE!

My Grandparents Funeral Portraits (mom's side)

7) Simplify the "Hard" Experience into Lessons
On my way back to my place, I have the pleasure to sit and contemplate all that has happened at the family gathering (my uncle's side). I truly enjoyed scaring the children of the fireworks and watching them scream for help. Of course, my connection with my cousin and his wife makes me more accepting of other people's behavior and perhaps even put some faith in humanity. The more deeper lesson I come to realise is we are all alone, even when with family. There are times I noticed a family member trying to get the attention of another. Then I saw the pictures of my grandparents who have passed on so long ago, and now my uncle and auntie are showing the signs they are slowing down too. The point is we will all die, and all the bitterness and pain of the past ceased to put on any weight in value, making me realize that it will all go away, and nothing, even family, friends or relatives truly belongs to any of us. So what's the point of coveting other people's haves or have-nots, showing contempt over other's physical appearances and awkward traits? The value comes to live only when we stop adding misery to others and putting on hope in ourselves that we may do good more than harm.

A good Communications Strategy Coach will do you even more good like preparing you for (sample tips here):
* How to Excel in Reality TV Shows,
* How to Make Your Casting Enjoyable
* How to Handle Rude Casting Agent
* Exude Your Inner Star Quality.
* Points to Consider before you strive for Fame
* The Art of Networking
* How to Handle the Media
* What to do during Pre-Production
* What to do during Production
* How Should an Artiste Travel for Work
* The Value of Preparation

Kindly read my newly revised self-description (About me) section at your left hand column for more info about my services and what I do. All course modules (Communication/Acting/Modelling/TV Hosting/Film Direction starts at RM 1500 per adult student (working executive) for 20 hours of lecture + 10 hours of practical (Real-world casting sessions) + Portfolio + Testimonial Letter . Email or sms to 0122350091 for details, after 1pm ) Post COMMENT or CLICK at the AD BANNERS. Now you can be a follower or subscribe below:
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Asus Transformer Prime, Samsung Galaxy Tab 7.7 or Ipad 3? The shortlist of tablets I am considering for purchase. Let's take a look in my crystal balls.

2012-01-21T23:23:00.001+08:00

Screen Resolution War
I need my crystal balls once again, to take a peek into the Future since the last time I used it.The Samsung Galaxy Tab 7.7 and Asus Transformer Prime T201 (NOT the T701, which has higher screen resolution) are finally coming here. I was surprised by the price for Samsung Galaxy Tab 7.7 at close to RM2300, where else the Transformer Prime is less than a hundred at close to RM2200. The screen resolution for both of these devices are the same 800X1280 pixel per inch. I am not a techno expert here, just my first try at balancing the weight of specs spectacular on both of these devices because I am planning to use either one of it. So far, Samsung Galaxy Tab 7.7 is getting an advantage here because of the Super AMOLED screen. It's an advantage, but apparently for that, the price went waaay over!

Price Range Lopsided-ness

The reason is because of the Samsung Galaxy Tab's other "siblings", especially the Tab 10.1 costs only RM1,899, and the screen size is so much bigger. Of course the selling point is the Super AMOLED Plus screen estate is apparently costlier. But mind you, it is the "Plus" not full "HD". So I have to think again, what am I going to do with a tablet in the first place? Let's forget about the specs hoo-ha and the frenzy of the hype. What can I actually DO in REAL LIFE with a tablet? I already have a laptop, fulfilled all my net surfing needs for the time being. Am I just buying a tablet to keep up with the trends of the times? Am I so shallow? Unless of course if I am earning the big bucks, then should be OK. Even my more well-to-do friends ain't buying any of the latest tablets, and complained about the price and specs.

In-exclusive Sales People for
the Exclusively-Priced

Of course with the impending Chinese New Year around the corner, the urge to splurge is always there. But seriously, with a price tag of RM2300, I stopped for a moment and figure perhaps I should get the Asus Prime instead. It is quad core, meaning three times the processing power. The screen resolution for both devices are the same, and why not take Asus since it's RM100 cheaper? I've been to the Samsung outlets, and find the salespeople at The Gardens are quite "lan-see" and arrogant sort, except for this one chubby fellow. The outlets are Low Yat are just as bad. I've never been to an Asus shop before, so it could be a welcome change? I'm not betting on that either. The "market" atmosphere at Low Yat is generally very pushy and in-exclusive.

No Phone Calls, No Ipad-lah
Then we have the super brand Apple's Ipad. I was tempted to purchase the Ipad 2 when the website had a Red Friday offer in conjunction with the Chinese New Year, but the discount was just so unattractive. The whole websphere is raving about the Ipad, and the upcoming third generation. But again, all the predictions about the Ipad 3 don't always turn out to be true on the launch day. For example the Iphone 4s. Can I wait for Mr.Tim Cook to introduce the new version in March, as some had suspected the date of launch? Can the new Ipad even make GSM phone calls?

Help, I still need a Tablet or Smartphone!
Today happened to be quite challeging day for me. I dropped my Sony Ericcson phone (not the smart one) on the ground again! Ai-yai-yai! Due to its many hard falls, this handphone of mine is already beginning to show problems - I can't see my outgoing calls and sms. In the middle of a busy season, I need my handphone to be functioning at its tip-top condition! Geez, is this a sign from my crystal balls predictions to push me to get a smartphone (or even a tablet?) Only time will tell....and the available budget of the moment, of course. Oh, mighty crystal balls, what are thy predictions for my future tablet purchase? Someone sponsor a new tablet in exchange for a positive review here?

Below are some links to my past SHOPPING TIPS for PRODUCTS:
* The Buyer's Psychology
* Money-Saving Tips
* How to be a Smart Shopper (Grocery Goods)
* Tips for Buying Shoes (Sneakers)
* Instant Noodles (Mee Goreng) Review
* The Perfectionist Shopper
* Shopping Tips for Electronic Gadgets
* Music Player Review
* Taking Care of Your Umbrella
* Tips for Buying the Best Diary

Kindly read my newly revised self-description (About me) section at your left hand column for more info about my services and what I do. All course modules (Communication/Acting/Modelling/TV Hosting/Film Direction starts at RM 1500 per adult student (working executive) for 20 hours of lecture + 10 hours of practical (Real-world casting sessions) + Portfolio + Testimonial Letter . Email or sms to 0122350091 for details, after 1pm ) Post COMMENT or CLICK at the AD BANNERS. Now you can be a follower or subscribe below:
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Know Where You are Going - The Value of Preparation Outweighs Your Lack Thereof

2012-01-17T00:02:00.002+08:00

As an Artiste Training Coach, I do receive a lot of meeting proposals.All my students I advised to be prepared before they embark on anything. Preparation is key to success. Of course, one must always be professional when entertaining requests, given my past "bad" experience". A lot of people doesn't realise how much preparation one has to go through even before the meeting. Like casting sessions and auditions, it's the same preparation method I apply for business meetings. For first-time readers, you can access to all the tips here.

A good Communications Strategy Coach will do you even more good like preparing you for (sample tips here):
* How to Excel in Reality TV Shows,
* How to Make Your Casting Enjoyable
* How to Handle Rude Casting Agent
* Exude Your Inner Star Quality.
* Points to Consider before you strive for Fame
* The Art of Networking
* How to Handle the Media
* What to do during Pre-Production
* What to do during Production
* How Should an Artiste Travel for Work

No Last Minute, Please
For one, identifying the location is utmost important. I've never talked about this point, but if you don't know where you are going, how are you going to even start? For this meeting I'm supposed to attend tomorrow, by today already I have to make the effort to find the location of the office. Of course, you must find the time. I dislike doing things in a hurry, or last minute, because it actually makes you look unprofessional and waste energy.

Prep Yourself for Adventure
For me, I try to make my search for the location a form of adventure. For this meeting, the location is at Pudu. It's a whole new "world" to me, for I've been there before during an assignment where I followed a chap to his sales pitch. I noticed a lot of Chinese-operated shops and plenty of food stalls available. The whole cacophony of shops and roads turn this "adventure" even more exciting.

Save Your Time and Money
I took my sweet time, which is a luxury and important for me, since I hate doing things in a hurry. Besides, when I prepare early to identify the location of the office, then I wouldn't have to waste my energy searching for the place on the day of the meeting itself! Plus, I also save on taxi cab fare, and ask the driver to find the way for me. No need! If you're unfortunate, you might get a dishonest cab-driver who will take you a big turn-around just to get his meter running at its max capacity, causing you to shell a few ringgits more, sometimes even more than that!

Expect to "Get Lost"
So be smart and prepare early. I also get to enjoy the bustling side of Pudu. Now, I usually call the office first to enquire the location. Sometimes I masquerade as an outsider and ask for the direction. For this one, the admin officer lady told me to walk straight ahead after I departed from the LRT station and turn left until I find an oil station. I did exactly what she told me, but I couldn't spot the oil station! But along the way, I saw a lot of street peddlers, like a marketplace, I cannot call it a "pasar malam" (night market) since it was daytime when I set out. Most of the stuff they were selling are gadgets and cheap electronic stuffs and shoes.

What is an adventure without some challenges?
Then the rain came. This actually makes the search harder, for how am I going to look for the sign when I am holding the umbrella? Yes I can, but it's actually make the search more challenging for me. I tried to ask a few pedestrians about the petrol station, but it was a different brand from what I was told on the phone by the admin officer. So you need to be able to handle the dilemma of misdirection sometimes, and find ways to endure the punishing weather as well. What's my solution? As you know, Pudu is a place full of shops - I simply went into a bakery and bought some puffs. I took the opportunity to enquire at the counter, but no one seems to be able to help me spot the elusive location.

Treat Yourself
The rain was pouring in heavier as the minutes went by. My sneakers are now soaking in the water. So each step, I tried to avoid puddles of water, but not easy. I crossed the road and sat at a Chicken Rice stall. I've passed over this stall a few times before, and took this chance to try out the dish, I love that they serve chopped ginger, which is my favourite! Ginger is very good for your health, and especially if you have flu, it helps to clear your nostrils and bloodstream. The only thing I disliked about the food is the price, which does not commensurate with the portion of chicken served. But I love the copious amounts of ginger. Yummy...

The tinge of white light at the tunnel's end
After gaining some energy, (I didn't finish the chicken rice) I stood up and continued my search. My internal compass told me that the road is along that way, and the centre must be along that stretch. It's a centre for students, so it cannot be too far away from the food shops and convenience stores. I notice a lot of photocopy and stationery shops, so I suspect I must be near. Right before the moment I discovered the office, I enquired from a man walking by, and he was very kind to show me the road. I can feel he knows what he's talking about because he has none of the air of uncertainty. I felt very good to have encountered him, and right when I turned into an alley, right there is the office! Mission accomplished.

Allow my emotions lead me astray
As I head back to the train station, I reminded myself again of the direction and which turns to go into. I kinda visualise the whole place, and at the same time snapped some pictures for my perusal later. I noticed that I took the long road and went through a huge circle, where else the actual location is just a few metres away from the point of exit from the station. I guess I must have allow my emotions to lead me astray. Or perhaps the adventure side in me prompted me to give a longer chase in the search. But then again, how else am I going to be aware of my emotions when this is just a straightforward search for a location? No matter how focus one can be, emotions tend to creep in at the most unexpected moment...

Below are the links to my past SUCCESS stories in helping shape my students of all diverse backgrounds and industries:
* Full Attendance
* Fashion Students Showcase
* Bigger Class
* Taking Students on Roadshows
* International Students
* Student on Magazine Cover
* Student Casting Session for Real Jobs
* Students Photo Shoot
* Students Performing for Event

Kindly read my newly revised self-description (About me) section at your left hand column for more info about my services and what I do. All course modules (Communication/Acting/Modelling/TV Hosting/Film Direction starts at RM 1500 per adult student (working executive) for 20 hours of lecture + 10 hours of practical (Real-world casting sessions) + Portfolio + Testimonial Letter . Email or sms to 0122350091 for details, after 1pm ) Post COMMENT or CLICK at the AD BANNERS. Now you can be a follower or subscribe below:

*If you're a Youtube user, you can SUBSCRIBE to my page at: www.youtube.com/krislawworldwide

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*For one-liners, I even have a Twitter account at: WWW.TWITTER.COM/KRISLAWWORLD

The Art of Quality Networking - 7 steps to connect with quality people in any industry.

2012-01-12T20:18:00.000+08:00

It's very hard to get quality networking, especially in Corporate Malaysia. One of the main reasons is because we take ourselves too seriously, think too narrowly and inability to communicate well. But of course, if you're not any of those things, then you should have no problem networking. Recently, I was invited to attend an SME seminar organised by CIMB Bank at Sheraton Imperial. Noticed that I managed to receive many quality contacts, ie:business cards from bosses of a law firm, audit firm and other companies in various industries. The theme of the seminar is about Feng Shui. Apparently now, the bank is targetting at the Chinese market small medium business segment. The invitation is quite appealing, given the location and the promise of luncheon. Of course now I am on a strict diet, I cannot binge too much on the food, hehe. Below are some tips for aspiring artistes who wants to learn to network well:

A string of cards I received

1. Have an attractive business card
Being pretty or attractive is not good enough. It's not how sharp you dress. It's not how good-looking you are in person. It's not even how you carry yourself in public. Seriously, in Malaysia, the rules are different. I notice people don't even take a second look at some of the sharp and well-dressed men and women during the luncheon. So what's the most important thing you must have? An attractive business card that speaks who you are. As for me, it's simple. Given that I have an artiste background, my business card directly portrays who I am. An attractive business card will subconsciously give you the extra confidence.

2. Be selective in approaching people
In a crowd, one must be aware of the thrash from the jewels. Of course, sometimes, you have to throw the ball first and see if it bounces back. Unfortunately, there's more thrash than jewels at the luncheon I attended. You have to be selective in approaching people, because some are simply not good at communicating or not interested in networking at all. Mostly they lack the skills to interact with people, so you must avoid such crowd for the sake of conserving your energy. There are other people around. If he/she responds awkwardly at your gesture, quietly move on to the next person. Thrash is contagious.

Some artwork with feng shui theme

3. Have an open body and facial expression
This technique works well for a seasoned actor. For those who doesn't know what acting is about, you may have a problem applying this step. You should take my Artiste Training Course, because this technique pushes you to total body and mind relaxation. But it does not mean you stay still, but rather you concentrate your energy at your best reflexes and moment. Your whole body and facial expression outwardly, gives you a warm aura that attracts only quality people during networking.

The seminar talk started with the slide of a fiery dragon

4. Maintain casual topic of conversation
Some people approached me during the luncheon, and immediately they launched onto their sales pitch to me. "My company offers this and this service, and you'll benefit greatly from us" Wrong start. At first meeting, one should always start with a general topic of conversation. The best point to start off is the theme of the seminar. This is because when you have a general point, everyone can contribute into the topic. You also won't offend others who may not be there solely for your business proposition.

Dessert section - love the green cheese cake on top

5. Balance your Food Intake/Words Outtake
During the luncheon, I cannot help but notice so many delicious food being served at the buffet table. One tends to forget the purpose of the luncheon, (and many do) and went walloping the food without a care. Here's when the true artiste should shine - balancing the act of eating and carrying on a casual conversation with your networking partner. You simply cannot eat and talk at the same time! You need to be able to steer the pull of the topic to another direction so you can take a bite of your food, without appearing to act like a glutton. Yes, we are all there to eat too. But the art of appearing not too over eager about the food is just as subtle and important for a quality networking artiste.

6. Connect by Completing Tasks with Others
During the seminar, I had a wonderful learning about the numerology in feng shui. Apparently, all the numbers on my birthdate determines the person I am, and how my future would be. I was given a paper with notes, and I started to calculate all the numbers into a chart format. It gets a bit complicated at times, and I usually involve my networking partner into solving the charts. This is the best and most fulfilling part of the whole networking event, because it brings in teamwork and a sense of purpose where you and your partner can help each other out. I pointed out a mistake my partner made when calculating his birthdate chart. The sign hypen on the chart is not a minus. And remember to be gentle when correcting your networking partner's mistake, you wouldn't want to hurt his feelings. The one who made the mistake is an auditor, but I did it in a way that promotes teamwork, NOT showing off that "I am better than you".

7. Smile and give a genuine but firm farewell
After the seminar, you must remember to smile and give your fellow networking partners a genuine expression of leaving. The truth is, we don't know where or when we might bump into each other again. Forget about those "thrash" you unintentionally met along the way. Pull yourself together and show an expression of honesty that says I'm glad to have known you here, but hopefully we'll meet again someday. You don't have to say the words, but the expression you've shown is what truly matters and captures the heart. That's why as an actor, I have so many networking skills at my disposal, simply because it translates into the actual world of business too. Below are the links to my past SUCCESS stories in helping shape my students of all diverse backgrounds and industries:
* Full Attendance
* Fashion Students Showcase
* Bigger Class
* Taking Students on Roadshows
* International Students
* Student on Magazine Cover
* Student Casting Session for Real Jobs
* Students Photo Shoot
* Students Performing for Event

Kindly read my newly revised self-description (About me) section at your left hand column for more info about my services and what I do. All course modules (Communication/Acting/Modelling/TV Hosting/Film Direction starts at RM 1500 per student for 20 hours of lecture + 10 hours of practical (Real-world casting sessions) + Portfolio + Testimonial Letter . Email or sms to 0122350091 for details, after 1pm ) Post COMMENT or CLICK at the AD BANNERS. Now you can be a follower or subscribe below:

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*For one-liners, I even have a Twitter account at: WWW.TWITTER.COM/KRISLAWWORLD

Fire-Breathing Dragon Display this Year of Dragon, and other Non-Dragon "Fire-y" Display Worth Mentioning.

2012-01-12T00:10:00.000+08:00

Santa's Boy turns Dragon's Toy
Usually we get oranges and tanglungs (Chinese lanterns) for Chinese New Year. This year is quite special because it is the year of the dragon. Expect to see plenty of dragons coming out to grab your attention. Of course, being the central motif for every fashion display can be a tad boring. So I've planned to throw in a few non-dragon displays that are equally as charming, at least not breathing fire down my neck. So what does our commercial city has in-store with their imagination and ideas in store for the upcoming Chinese New Year? Let's take a ride on my dragon's back, hold on tight, you wouldn't want to fall off into the fireworks just yet.....

For the benefit of my current students, I have assembled the various reviews I've written in the hopes that it could help guide them in designing their own fashion window displays, links for the reviews below:
* Christmas 2011 Display
* MaSIF Fashion Review
* Spring/Summer Fashion Display @KLCC
* IFTC Students' Fashion Show @Sungei Wang

Your Basic Dragon
Love the minimal dragon pose, with its tail up in the top. Quite similar with my picture above. Again, it's very minimalist, no other adornings to make this display pop out. Except for one element you can spot in this display. Notice the dragon is wearing sunglasses? Hello? Must be hot and harmful to its eyes when spurting fire out from the mouth, ain't it, Mr.Dragon?

Longest, Biggest Dragon Train
For this type of humongously long dragon, you definitely need a large space, only at Pavillion. The train of the body is absolutely sumptuous with gold letters around. For chinese, the long train of the dragon's body may suggest longevity.

Oranges of a Tangy Dragon
I truly love this simple concept. Now the long strains of oranges can be miscontrued as something else other than a dragon. It could be a snake. Or the branch of a tree. But seeing that this year is the Year of the Dragon, it's safe to assume it is the form of a dragon. Or some form of tentacles from an orange-y octopus? The flavour for this display is one word - sweet.

Nature's Dragon - No fire please...
Dragons do take many forms and shapes this year. This one particular is made of branches and straws. Of course to add more natural flavor, you get the flowers on the mannequins. This dragon don't breathe fire. Instead, it's so domesticated, it'll let you sit on its body and tail. If it does breathe fire, the whole display will go down in flames...in a minute.

Golden Dragon on Lantern
At KLCC, this is the display that is pretty safe and back to traditional form. You see the lanterns. I even spotted a choi-san-yeh (God of Prosperity) walking around this display. This centrepiece doesn't do much in terms of creativity but it'll do just ..... safely.

Some Peacock
A change of gear. Too much dragon, now let's get some peacock. Lovely and rich display from British India. My fashion students would learn a thing or two. The whites on the clothes do stand out in the rich colours of the peach. It has that nature theme, but a picnic is in place. Notice the woven blanket where the mannequin sat on?

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Are Malaysian Chinese Men profile being "emasculated" in the popular media spotlight? A case of mis-perception that needs revising NOW before it's too late. If you're serious about being fair in media, read this.

2012-01-07T00:00:00.002+08:00

Am I being made the "villain" in my industry?

Recently, I welcomed a friend who came back from Singapore. He's planning to settle in KL after working in Singapore for 10 years. We had a good talk. Interestingly, we fall into the topic of why being a Chinese male in Malaysia can be quite unwelcoming.You see, he was at the Immigration check-point, and the officer was quite rude to him. But personally, I know how he felt. That's because I myself am aware of this kind of second-class treatment. I've acted in a few Malay drama productions before, and have encountered a few times where I'm being given "the treatment". Don't get me wrong here. This is NOT a complaint or some senseless rant, but merely an honest observation. The purpose of this entry is to help readers be more conscious of how popular media is sub-consciously shaping your mind and perception everyday towards yourself and the society you're placed in now. It's time to be mature and take a mirror for evaluation.

Anyone missing in the picture here?

To Create a Hero, You Must First Conjure a Villain
Especially in the local production, I feel the growing hostility that is quite strange to me at first, but soon I realised the source of it. We can blame the political parties or the media, either way, the Malaysian Chinese Male segment suffered horribly in terms of representation in the entertainment media. I can only speak for my own profile, since it's only fair to write from experience. You see, in any village group - to emerge as a hero, one needs a villain to fight and to blame all sorts of misfortune. And here's where I believe the Chinese male is being lighted and defamed as the villain.. I've encountered many times being treated like a pariah by production managers, even though I have been punctual and remembered my lines correctly. I'm not saying all production managers are like that, but a few too many still exists unfortunately.

A group of multi-racial talents,
and not even one Malaysian Chinese Man?

All Chinese Men Well-to-Do Meh?
The thing about me - I must find the root cause of being cast as a villain in our multi-racial society. Some people hated me you know, for no rationale reason except that I'm a Malaysian Chinese male. As I delved deeper, I discovered the first most common misperception about the Chinese Male is - they think we are all very well-to-do, rich people. That's the problem about money, a form of hardware. Where on Earth do people from other races think that Chinese men are all from rich backgrounds? This group of people needs to get out from their homes more, and go visit the night market and Chinese food-stalls on the street. They are all Chinese folks trying to earn a meagre living. And you can label them as rich?

Billboard ad, but where's
my Malaysian Chinese Man?

Apa-apa Saja (Anything goes)
The second reason why Chinese Male are being targeted is because simply we the men just let it happen without consciously realising the subconscious "messages" being transmitted by the media today. We do not make a stand or explain the real situation to certain bigots in our society. What made the situation worst is that there's really a lack of positive media portrayal of the Chinese Male in its proper light to other races (not just among the same race). Personally for me, this year I have a secret resolution to, in my own small way, make other segments of our society to view Chinese Men differently and not in a stereotypical way. My language skills is limited to only good in BM and English. Yet, there's very very limited acting roles for a profile like mine. I consider myself to be the smart and intelligent sort, not the gangster, cina-apek, that the majority of our society is so accustomed to view us in the media. That's why I rejected some of these roles offered: gangster, Japanese soldier, cina apek, typical uncle. Unlike our Female Chinese (ah-moi), they are greatly worshiped on the pedestal. Same as the Malay Male.

Definitely not buying anything there

Lopsided Portrayal of Society in Media
If you go around the city today, you will notice all these giant billboards advertisements. How many Malaysian Chinese men you see being represented in a big, positive way? (not the funny, nerdy, geeky or silly roles) And how many Malaysian Chinese Female and Malay Males being represented in a sophisticated, mature and attractive roles? Plenty. The disparity is so obvious and wide. Is it because there's this some strange code that restricts the Malaysian Chinese Male profile being lifted up to the air and NOT given the proper positive main star representation in mainstream media outlets? Is there some form of dislike from the entertainment and culture ministry that prohibits Malaysian Chinese Men from being portrayed in a big way for any commercial brand? Do you know that only 15% front-camera talent work (which encompasses acting for local TV and advertising) goes to Malaysian Chinese, and more than half of that percentage goes to Chinese Female. An even smaller percentage actually goes to local Malaysian Chinese Male. If a woman has a lopsided breast, she has to go for operation because that means cancer. If a society has a lopsided portrayal of all societal profiles, that means there's a growing dissent brewing. Consciously or sub-consciously, we need to be aware what is happening. Or else this "cancer" just eats us away. Don't tell me the only "media representation" we, the Malaysian Chinese Male get is through a small drawing in the bear statue below.

The funny little cartoon spot is all we get?

No balance representation in media means no balance everything else
This unbalanced hierarchy of profiles portrayal has seeped into personal relationships as well. I have a Chinese gay friend who totally worships his Malay boyfriend. Everything he gives him. All for the sake of sticking with him. In bed, I asked him who makes the most effort? My Chinese friend said he did all for his Malay boyfriend. And what does his Malay boyfriend do to reciprocate his feelings and goodwill? Nothing. I advised my Chinese friend, there's no point for him to stick it out for him. Do you think you could marry him? Even whatever properties he has can never be shared with you due to the difference in profile. And worst, his boyfriend already feel his position is much more superior than him, thanks in large part to how the media is affirming his image and perceived self-worth. Better lose him and start putting more value in your own self-worth as a Malaysian Chinese Male. Another example is the Malaysian Chinese females, not all, but they are more empowered in many ways than their male counterparts in the media spotlight. I have done business with a few Malaysian Chinese female bosses, and they are all very confident. There's one Chinese male boss however, which I've dealt business before, and perhaps, due to his lack of confidence in himself as a Malaysian Chinese man (perhaps sub-consciously lack of positive representation of his profile in the media today), resorted to cheating me of the pay for some advertising works I've completed for him. Shame on him or forgive him? There are weird bosses festering in our Corporate Malaysia today. And that affects the workers greatly. Our culture and system indirectly profuses the half-hearted attitude towards work, conscious racial profiling and blind pride towards our own self-proclaimed superiority.

I'll buy anything he endorses.
My friend Kumar, from Myanmar.

What you get today is inherited. No self-made man, really.
The third reason other races can taint the image of the Chinese Male profile is because we lack the confidence. I see many of my other Chinese friends being very adherent to the rules and fearful. But that kind of attitude would actually make other people be more daring to put you down. This is a question of confidence. Dare not speak up. Scared to lose their jobs or something in that category. I cannot blame my fellow brothers on this issue, simply because the mainstream media does nothing to uphold the image of the Malaysian Chinese men. Our roles are sort of inherited from our forefathers, so probably the media feels no need to keep up-to-date the change. The Chinese male role is to make money, to become a businessmen and to make more money. But how about some of us who wants to be an actor or be in the arts in our own country, without caring so much about money? Isn't there any opportunity for us to make a decent living like our Malay brethren who are able to make a living in all artistic fields imaginable and excel (even though hardwork is less required on their part)? The solution to all these lopsided-ness is confidence.

Remember we're all on the SAME side

So what is there for a Malaysian Chinese Man to be confident about? At least the very confidence to face the world and attend classy events. Here's where a Personal Development Coach like myself comes in. Not all of us are born rich, yet still exists certain narrow-minded folks in the production field that thinks we are. Yet, many of these attributes that Chinese Men have could be the very reason other people hate us for or even jealous of? But why? What we have could easily be theirs too. Except some political people usually wants to divide us from them through mainstream media. You from me. He from she. Again, I can only speak for myself as a Chinese Male. In so many ways, I feel that we are "emasculated" from our position in the media spotlight, probably out of some unspoken loathe or some unsubstantiated fear (and even hatred). The image concocted by others on us are so lack of depth, borders on the old, tiring and boring stereotypes. It's sickening to watch all our local shows who cannot think beyond their own race, religion and culture. Stop, please. This is affecting my self-image as a Malaysian Chinese Male. I want to be proud of 1Malaysia, but that is not happening at the moment (not superficially, please). Most people don't use their software (mind) because it's harder to think, or maybe they're just too plain lazy? Their brains are hardwired already in the hardware (religion, culture and race). Look around you today. Try to predict what is the "unseen" in the seen. See beyond the obvious. The truth is around us - portrayed in the media now. You look around, decide and take action. Not like my friend who went overseas to work. More like action to change this mainstream perception and break stereotypical roles right now, right here. This is because Malaysia is the only country we have.

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New Year, New You? Why in Malaysia, hardware (lowest common denominator) rules supreme over software.

2011-12-31T03:00:00.001+08:00

Package Delivery from Future 2021
of the New You - Anybody home?

February 12, 2021
My Love can only go so far...
As the new year 2012 already dawns upon us, I began to notice so many glaring missing puzzles in our nation's macro social frame. I love my country, because it's the only one I have. But my love can only go so far. Unfortunately, there's a limit to my love. How I wish I could say my love is as wide and deep as the ocean. If I say that, then I would be no different than the other hypocrites on the street. I question about so many things the past year. How far have I progressed. How I view people in general, and the way I view the world in general.

Any thinkers here? Hello?
Other countries in the West, they have great thinkers. Serious intellectuals who actually thinks about solutions to solve problems in their own countries. I wonder how many of these thinkers we have here in Malaysia. Or at least the ones I could admire. I walked around the city in the last few days of 2011, and discovered plenty of constructions going on around me. Some were brand new walkways and bridges that connect one infrastructure to the next. Pretty cool, and lovely to see.

Of course, in order for these new constructions to take place, old infrastructure has to go. This is what I call the hardware transition. In Malaysia, we are so vibrant and constantly changing our hardware. KLCC is expanding its east and west wings. The old UO shopping mall near to Central Market has already closed to make way for the construction of a new rail. The pounding and clanking sounds of lorry and dirt movers regurgitated my mind into deep thought.

Hardware Only

Why, hardware is ALL Malaysia is good at. Not just the buildings, but race, culture and religion are considered to be a form of hardware as well. My Muslim friends who wears the tudung and songkok is proclaiming proudly to the world that they are Muslims. My Catholic friends who go to church every Sunday is affirming their faiths. Unfortunately in the entertainment industry, race and religion do take precedence according to a specific style of hierarchy. But I am only speaking for my own profile - a Chinese male. I find it so offensive that there's a great lack of representation and the misuse of the media in stereotyping the Malaysian Chinese male as some form of nerd, geeky and always-funny form of caricature.

Spanking new station

Social Hardware
Again, this is all hardware. Social status is another form of hardware Malaysia can be proud of. We grant datukships to high society or some Malaysians who "made it" overseas. Or some other forms of title which honors, usually a person of wealth, power and fame. You will notice how many TV personalities are busy hooking up with millionaires and datuks. They have to in order to "survive" and upkeep their image. I am not condemning, I am merely stating a fact that celebrities are NOT true artistes. Celebrities are merely chasing a form of hardware in order to survive. True artistes don't chase after hardware.

Hardware Misuse

New Block (carpark?) at Chinwoo

How about non-celebrities? Well, they also chase the same form of category, but in a different form factor - the content is the same. Jobs, positions and money. These are hardwares too that are fundamental in a materialistic and commercial society like ours. If I am the manager and you are an officer, you better listen to my instructions. Unfortunately, the drive to go after these hardwares cause a fundamental fallacy in any type of system. One will tend to be greedy and misuse the system for one's own selfish benefit. Or lie and steal to get the hardware. So many times in politics, you hear people calling to protect their religion, race and culture. All hardware, zero software.

Especially in a creative industry, your ideas can be stolen: be it a script you wrote, your performance or copy you wrote for an advertising campaign. It happens. This one "friend" of mine has been using my services as a copywriter for some years now. And everytime I have to chase him for payment. When the work is given, he would not acknowledge that piece of headline, for example, and claimed it was done by him. Another personal example I've encountered was for a ringtone company. The manager asked me to translate the ringtones into Chinese speaking format. But where's my offer letter to dictate the terms and payment of my services? You may see a lot of job advertisements, but please be careful. There's plenty of hoax out there due to software non-existence.

Goodbye UO

No Software Here
Believe me that all these dishonesty of no payments for work completed are still rampant in our entertainment industry. But how can these dirty practices still exist in our country which is developing so many wonderful hardwares around us? The answer is simple - our software is simply non-existent. Even under-develop, you may say. The ringtones company director who hired me to translate their ringtones is a Muslim, so why didn't his religion stop him from cheating? The advertising company who stole my ideas is an established business with an office. The boss is Chinese, why didn't his high position stop him from cleverly taking my ideas without paying?

Thinkers Transcend Barriers
It's all about the software too. In our country, the biggest failure is in instilling the best practices for thinkers to thrive. There's virtually zero well-known thinkers in our country. Why's that? Simply because our current hardware system does not reward or even nurture quality thinkers. Everyone is going for the HARDWARE: religion, culture, status quo, money, salary etc. Most of the so-called "thinkers" with some form of name or media coverage, are merely defending their own race, culture or some other form of selfish enterprise. I'm talking about thinkers who knows they are in a precarious situation and would not allow themselves to be mistreated and treat others unjustly. Are there any like that? It has nothing to do with your race, religion and social standing. You could be a garbage collector and be a great thinker at the same time!

More skyscrapers surrounding KLCC

Here's where my aspirations are for my Artiste Training Course. Real artistes are so rare, perhaps even non-existent in Malaysia. Are you ready to become the first one? Artistes understands the situation and sees things as they are, not in any colored fantasies or falsity hyped up by others or by some form of out-dated hardwares. True artiste stand on their own, at the expense of being unpopular even. Now what we have in our industry are simply followers, Yes-men and women. We become like that because we are afraid to lose our hardware - jobs and money! Really, I'm not saying it is a bad thing, just the way we are conditioned, hence the results.

Anyone out there NOT afraid to lose their jobs?
If I don't follow my boss orders, I could get fired. Fear is actually an illusion. A form of convulated belief that you will lose something for doing something else. But the truth is, nothing in this world ever belongs to any of us in the first place. Eventually, everything has to go - to make way for the new. Like money. If you don't spend it, what good would money do for you? I believe fear is a misnomer. Fear to think is a misnomer. If thinking is what you do the whole day, you should be put on the front page newspaper and made a star. Unfortunately, thinking is not something Malaysians are encouraged to do by anyone. Hence, the greatest mistake was made for putting priority on hardware over software. Seriously, you cannot blame people for doing so due to conditioning from young. It's easier to just follow a set of existing hardware conditioning. Simply follow A in order to get to B. If you don't, you will never get there, period.

New bridge

No wonder so many people are repressed by fear, in the midst of all the hardware superiority. Fear to take action. It is this fear that produces a generation of sub par quality of people. No doubt we have Malaysians who studied abroad and such, and came home with their hardwares - degrees, masters, PhDs. But does it matter? Some who do come home, complains about the very infrastructure that enables them to go overseas to study. Notice how much trouble hardware causes? People with Masters aren't all that quality people. Their minds are just as common as everybody else.

New bridge connecting Star and Putra Masjid Jamek

Lots of Hardware Work, Zero Software
How about in the workplace? I remembered my last stint as an English Teacher for this food and beverage company, and notice this very young manager. She obviously has the ambition, hence she does a lot tasks, but unfortunately the people working around her aren't cooperative with her. The staff working under her were my students, and I hear many complaints. This is a great problem because in the restaurant business, teamwork is essential. The manager thinks she completed all the hardware tasks would enable her to succeed further, and that's what the boss approves too. But she failed to notice the software part is abandoned. That's why as an English Teacher, I tried to instill the software skills, but was stopped half-way due to the priority placed on hardware tasks. You see, I'm not afraid of losing my job because of some silly software malfunction. Let it be.

Empty space - devoid of machines

The point is: I'm a Communications Strategy Coach, and the one thing I do best is to fine-tune the software part. A lot of people failed to see that - what with the examination importance placed on the education system? I notice so many students spend time on tuitions to make the grade - but essentially failed horribly to understand why should they even learn in the first place? The answer from them is to get the grade, get a degree, get a good-paying job, build a family then retire. Notice all these answers are skewed only in one direction? The hardware direction. Not even one answered or aspired for the software aspect. Worst, to prove how hardware is gaining superiority is to look around you. Indians still mingle with indians. Malays still with their own race in social gatherings.

Hardware deteriorates, Software Endures...

A lot of people failed to notice that hardware deteriorates faster than software over time. Your thinking is what made who you are - not your job, family, friends, race or religion, where you stay or what kind of connections you have. How can you spot the symptom when a hardware is deteriorating? The most visible form of deterioration is rudeness. The quick dismissal and belittlement of others of their opinions "Ai ya, it is like that arrr. Don't bother...". Bad customer service from the electronics shop where I purchased the walkman. Rude remarks from food stall operators who thinks you owe them the favor for becoming their loyal customer. Family members who pretends to offer a helping hand, but with conditions attached and accusatory assumptions being placed on you first before the help even arrives!

Improving Software, Not Hardware

Again, I am not saying hardware is not important. It is imperative, even a prerogative that we must let our minds be developed first and lead the hardware later, not the other way around. The saying "Build first, the rest will come" is a dated thinking. Can you imagine watching a movie that only have beautiful and famous actors but lousy story/plot lines? It's a waste of ticket money. We have so many of those thrash coming out from the pipeline. Even the story and plot lines are treated as some form of hardware, meaning lack of depth with no thought whatsoever. Simply just follow. Or go back to their original hardware.

Software. The single most important thing everyone should fix and upgrade despite their hardware condition. Millions, even billions of ringgit are spent on building infrastructure hardware around us - the new SmeCorp at KL Sentral, Iskandar etc. Don't you agree that money should be spent on upgrading your software too? You are different from an electronics gadget because if you were an electronics gadget - the hardware and software must be compatible with each other first before it could function. That's the amazing thing about being a human being. You can upgrade your software now, without waiting for the hardware to arrive. Software changes, hardware seldom do. When a virus infects, simply change the software. That's how easy to change software - and voila, you are brand new again. Truly, this new year 2012 should be the clarion call for all of us to better our software before the hardware. If not, you might just stuck and remain frozen in 2011.

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Confessions of a Paranoid Shopper - How to Survive the Post-Christmas/New Year/Chinese New Year Madness? Get an education.

2011-12-19T23:09:00.000+08:00

New sandals

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Paranoid. We all experience it once a while. From experience, or just naturally, paranoia is a form of condition that makes one extra aware and over cautious in certain situation. It is for me when I'm shopping during the festive season. You see, I enjoy shopping like everybody else. It's just that I can be such a perfectionist when it comes in purchasing a particular product. Let's take 3 examples of product I've bought for Christmas - a swimming trunk from Philosophy, swimming goggles and Walkman from Sony.

Way Ahead the Curve
The thing about paranoia is - I am always ahead of the curve. While others might still be shopping for a Christmas present, I've already set my mind ahead of the holidays madness. I think one need not think too much about what to do, when you already have the end in mind. Which I have already. Thinking ahead really helps too. Personally, I hate Christmas, New Year and Chinese New Year. Simply because this is the season where all the fake-ness concregate in its maximum. Everyone is pretending to be jolly. As an artiste, pretending is sick. Sorry to those who actually enjoys the holiday seasons, but for those who don't, this is a great time to reflect.

We lie to ourselves about our real self-image
Personally, I hate buying swimming trunks, because I am often in a dilemma of of my own size.. I always aspire to be thinner, so in my head I have this ideal waistline. But when I have to buy a swimming trunks, I have to give in to reality. My ideal waistline is 30, but in actual, I am a 32. Like the Sony Walkman, due to its brand name, I always consider Sony as supreme in sound quality. But when I pluck in the earphones and listen, I find out the sound somewhat out from what I expected. Same as the swimming trunk. When I tried to put it on, I find out that it couldn't fit me. Then why on earth in the first place, did I bought these 2 stuff?

I SWEAR - this is my LAST purchase from Sony

We are all impulsive buyers
Like last Sunday, when I was reviewing the Christmas displays, I suddenly found the new swimming trunks on display. Frankly, I need a new pair, because the last one was stolen. And this new pair looks really cute with all the stars decorated on the front and back. I didn't even try it on - I just told which size I want and bought it on the spot! Same as the Sony Walkman. Since my last Zen Creative went bonkers and needed repair, my music addiction kicks in and forces me to purchase that damn Sony Walkman. It's all impulses no doubt.

We are all tricked by sales promotion

Office shoes

When I first noticed the swimming trunks at Philosophy, I remembered that I have their membership card. What's good is that I get 15% off on the purchase without having to buy anything else. And since it was Christmas, and I am in serious need of a pair of trunks to do my swimming exercise, what the heck. In my mind I am foreseeing the late night parties and all the celebrations will make my weight balloon, so as a precaution, I needed those damn pair of trunks. As for the Sony Walkman, in actual fact, I hate feeling bored. There weren't any sales promotion that time when I purchase it.

The after-effects of shopping
I got very upset with the Sony customer service, because a month after my purchase, it came with 3 freebies. I felt cheated and under appreciated as a customer for buying it so early and missed the freebies that came after a month or so. So I went to them, and demanded - only I get to redeem the silicone casing, but not the USB charger. In other countries, the customer service wouldn't deny my privilege of getting those freebies, because I am the customer. In Malaysia, the customer service is very gangster type.

5-tier plastic cabinet RM50

Perfectionist Extreme - "I spot a strand of pubic hair, aaargh!"
The thing about me that I've discovered is I'm such a perfectionist. Everything that I ever buy, I would compare and check, double-check the product first. As for the Philosophy swimming trunks in which I bought at an impulse, I noticed there were some hair-like elements in the inseams of the trunks, yet I scrapped them away. Imagine that! In my mind, I was so determined to buy this, and my head is playing all kind of mental pictures. Only the next day, when I tried out another pair of red swimming trunks in size 1, I couldn't pull it up at all - it got stuck at my knees! But I want to wear the trunks now, and go for swimming now.

Driving Salesperson Mad!
The very next day, I went over to the shop at KLCC. Apparently, I can only change the size of the trunks at the shop where I purchased, and doesn't apply to its branch. So I have to went to Pavillion and exhanged it. This going back and forth really takes up effort, in which I take it as a form of exercise. But I can tell you, it drives some salespeople irritated. And I couldn't care a fart! Really, the salesperson needs to provide all necessary information, but in their haste, they didn't. So they deserve it, when the customer return the product and demand a better size.

Sweet Puffs, RM16

Customer Service or Excuse Service?
When I was refused the USB charger from the Sony KLCC, I went over to the Mid Valley office. Now they don't have the ground lounge, but I went up to the 8th floor (the spare parts) and demanded for it. The person in charge was readily to find excuses to redirect the customers away from them, instead of actually helping to find a solution. That is the worst kind of attitude. And I notice that, even though I was polite and all that. Call it lazy or inefficiency, whatever. The customer service in Malaysia is doomed, with their giving excuses attitude. They certainly need to go through some form of communication class (or take mine for only RM950 per pax). My friend advised me to write a letter to the manager and demand for the freebies.

Chocolate Cheese Cake, RM7.90

Product Dis-Uniformity
When I purchased the new Sony Walkman E Series, I thought I could plug in my noise-cancellation earphones into it. But it can't! Then I ask the salesperson whether they sell anymore walkman with the noise-cancellation feature, and they said no more. Discontinued? Sometimes, it gets frustrating for a faithful customer to ask so many questions before they can receive the answer they want. Now, both of my noise-cancellation earphones are deemed useless. I just have to settle for the poor quality sound or resort to forking out about RM450 for a pair of noise-cancelling earphones!

Conclusion - Intangible Products is worth the money more...
Finally what have I learned about the festive season day shopping? Well, I shouldn't have put myself through it at all. But who can resist not to spend? I notice I get frustrated more with the stuff I bought at a higher price range like eletronics. Come on, I've been waiting for the Galaxy Nexus and Tab 7.7, and until now it's not release yet. I think by the time they do, other better models like the Ipad 3 would have already been announced, and I could hold onto my wallet for that. I think tangible products are more frustrating to buy to say compre to education or coaching lessons which is more satisfying when purchased. This is because coaching is meant to uplift you and give you knowledge in the subjects that you're interested in like Acting, Modelling, TV Hosting and Film Direction (all starting at only RM 950 per student for 20 hours of lecture + 10 hours of practical. Original price RM 1500). Email to krislawfanclub@gmail.com for details.

Products can be classified into tangibles (like all the stuff I bought and went the trouble with) and intangibles (like education, coaching session - worth spending the money for). How about food? Yes, it's definitely worth the money, if you can get the best deals. If I have known sooner, I'll put all my money into improving myself with communication skills and not upset myself again with all the paltry, sub-par products currently flooding into our Malaysian market today. Ooops, not today. My mind is already way ahead in February 2012 already.

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Christmas Display 2011 Review & why it's all same old, same old. Except one new and really good too.

2011-12-18T22:15:00.000+08:00

Exactly one year ago, I did a review on the various Christmas fashion displays. Now after started a new syllabus with my new batch of fashion students, hopefully they can benefit and even get some tips on how to do their various assignments. Those students who are SMART enough will remember what I lectured in class that day, but so far, I can only count a few who are truly smart. Now back to the display, I set out again to the city and try to uncover some beautiful gems of Christmas display at a few megamalls in the city. Of course, at the same time, I also wanted to buy some presents for friends. For the benefit of my current students, I have assembled the various reviews I've written in the hopes that it could help guide them in designing their own fashion window displays, links for the reviews below:
* MaSIF Fashion Review
* Spring/Summer Fashion Display @KLCC
* IFTC Students' Fashion Show @Sungei Wang

KLCC - My Music Box is bigger than yours.
I choose KLCC to be the first Christmas display for review because they actually set up all their props way back in November. I love the Christmas music box idea and supposedly the Christmas tree would pop out from it, rather than a ballerina figure or a nutcracker soldier. Anyway, the look is still cliche, the only saving grace is the music box concept.

Pavillion - Please "bear" with me in Wonderland.

Next we head off to Pavillion. I love the gateway entrance to their "Christmas Wonderland", except I dont's see any "Alice", but rows of international bear figures. If you walk to the centre concourse, then the whole concept sort of fizzles back to the cliche - Christmas trees, lights etc. It borders on the same old, same old. The "box-office" attraction is of course, those lovey-dovey bears surrounding the main entrance. I noticed a lot of shoppers snapping pictures with the bears of their choice.

Fahrenheit - Wedding Cake or Christmas Tree?
This shopping complex is still new, I think it should be their 1 year anniversary. Last year I did a review on it. This year, they have a fairy tale dome, with bouquets of flowers and lights strewn all over it. This concept looks very similar to a wedding reception, and might not have the total Christmas atmosphere? Of course, again, the cliches of having a Santa Claus mascot around and the sleigh in the front to make the last impression.

Sungei Wang - Little Show Girls Extravanganza
There's a nice platform stage in the middle, and little christmas trees, unlike those giant ones around the city. I enjoy the performances of this extremely young girls, doing a Chinese number - and these girls can dance. I love the simple presentation, and quite a relief from all the giant Christmas trees and lights.

Berjaya Times Square - Toy Fun Christmas
I truly enjoy the giant toy figures, like the 2 shown in the picture. Of course, again, you simply must have the Christmas tree in the middle, and the red closing drapes. Other than that, this display appears to be just .... plain fun.

And the Winner is.....Mid Valley! In the Garden of Christmas Dreamscape
Truly magical. The labyrinth-like structure of the garden really mimicks the royal garden of King Louis XIII. I love the "personalised" touch of the entrance, and how it makes me feel as a visitor, somewhere in between a royalty and a little child. All the elements are in perfect harmony, the little gazebo in the middle, flowers and shrubs and well-manicured leaves, of course they're all fake.

But just the feeling it evokes to the shoppers is simply whimsical and magical. I am transformed back into a child again! Well done, Mid Valley!

Being Thankful
Of course, after all these Christmas shopping malls reviews, one tends to feel so "hungry" to go shopping. Those beautiful old Christmas songs playing, bringing back nostalgic memories being a child during Christmas, and expecting presents. Of course now, as an adult, you don't receive as many presents as you do back then. But still, no reason not to buy something for myself. As you guys know, my swimming trunks was stolen by someone at the public pool, and so I went over to Philosophy and spotted a nice one. Well, here's my Christmas present for myself. I think this year, I am much better at restraining myself from over-splurging on unnecessary material shopping. Besides the material, I'm also thankful for my health, good fortune and many other blessings - one prime example is my Coaching Practice is Getting Bigger. So what's in store for 2012? One can only wait and hope.

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Started the day "badly". But does it mean it will end badly too? Think again.

2011-12-16T21:23:00.002+08:00

Rain, rain, go away....

Need extra energy for today
It was a rainy day. It started out with a rainy feel. I could already feel the darkness of the billowing clouds. Before I leave the house, the thought of wearing sandals came across my mind, but have to wear proper shoes due to today's first class with a new batch of students. So I wore my shoes, took my umbrella and had my lunch. I didn't save the other half portion like I used to, and walloped everything because I knew I would need the energy to teach, plenty of it! Besides, the lunch was very simple, so it was easy to chow it all down. I had drumstick with some vegetables. At the restaurant, the rain finally poured in buckets! I couldn't stay in and wait the rain out, for I have a class timetable to meet. So I left in a jiffy after my lunch.

Rainy day means bad luck? Think again.
In the train, I noticed the rain splatters on the windows and snap a picture. I always believed this to be good luck on the first day of class meet with my students being greeted by the roaring rain. It means good fortune for me. But in actual fact, when I arrived the LRT station to renew my monthly pass, the customer service personnel informed me their system is down. What? And I have to fork out money and get the new plastic coin to access the train. So I buggered off to the machine and found out I don't have the appropriate change for the machine. I remembered the Masjid Jamek station has now converged with the Star LRT station, so I should pick my final destination instead of transiting like in the past. The total is RM3.20.

Petty stuff

My lovely new batch of student!

It's a funny little plastic blue coin, where I just slipped it through the scanner and the door is opened. The buying and exchange at the counter eats up my time, so I have to really hurry up my pace. The rain water soaked into my socks weren't that comfy, but will have to do, for the big first class lecture. When I transit at the Monorail station, I was looking for a toilet where I can change, and unfortunately it was closed. So in the end, I have to go up to the college and change there. Finally, I met my new batch of students - some come from as far as from Pakistan and China.

My class attendance sheet

Full attendance, all cannot wait for me to start.
Usually at first meet, I'll definitely have trouble remembering all their names. But I managed to kickstart the class in a fun and congenial manner. I'm the sort of teacher who can double up as your friend, so there is no boundary between you and me. Unlike my other friend who is also a teacher, he really builds up a solid wall between himself and his students, and that usually means he has something to hide. In person, my friend is a total opposite of how he portrays himself to his students - he's a big baby, meaning he is demanding and careless with his words, but when it is directed back at him, he becomes even more offensive. Oh well, most men are babies? In the end, I have to be the bigger teacher and endure his nonsense. (which was many, by the way, witnessing a teacher throwing his undies around to make a point). Geez...

Management headache, but still calls me back

My lovely Myanmar students

Chef from Spain was a student of mine

After the class, I have to look at the attendance sheet. The headmistress is quite the "power lady" sort, meaning she screamed at her staff (luckily not me, but I feel bad for her staff) to do this and that. When in front of me, she's a totally different person, but she still give orders around her staff. But the thing is, it truly made me uncomfortable. One cannot use his/her good looks as a front for long, the shield will wear down. I remembered my last stint as an English teacher for this restaurant and bar company, where I taught about 50 students from Myanmar. We had such a wonderful teacher-student relationship, nearly 100 percent proficiency after my classes. Unfortunately, the stint was cut short due to my inability to meet the writing assignments given by the so-called "management", which to my opinion, does not fall in my job description. It could be an excuse the "management" took to get rid of me, I don't know, but at least I left the company in good stead. I suspect the company hired me to teach and maintain one of its master chef, because he left afterwards. Like everything in life, there's no good or bad. When they let me go, in fact, I'm glad to be free. Because of that, I am able to pursue more of my interests. And now I am back with my fellow fashion students! And they're all pretty bright and zesty, like fresh oranges, haha. If you're good at what you do (for me is teaching and coaching), people will surely call you back. Thank you, God!

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Even established artistes should take some private coaching. 6 hardships that will motivate you to start my coaching class today. Don't be self-enslaved, simply say TAK NAK (don't want) to hardships!

2011-12-16T02:43:00.001+08:00

Like an unwilling SLAVE BOY, my heart screams "TAK NAK"

Being attractive, an artiste or someone with a familiar face in the media is hard anywhere, period! That's why as an Artiste Training Coach, I am there to help anyone willing to be helped. It's not all about Reality TV Shows, Casting and exuding Your Inner Star Quality , it's actually WAY MORE than that. It's not the aspiring to become an artiste that is hard work, the AFTER is also filled with hard work and tricky too. The most common example, when the temptations to smoke comes, how are you going to say "#TAK NAK" (don't want)?Speaking from experience below are some of my very own observation in which I've personally encountered in the course of being an artiste.

Hardship 1: You are given advise by weird people, when you didn't even ask for it. TAK NAK!
Personally, I hate people whom I don't know really well, or those fair-weather "friends", came up to me and offer their "advise". Be it make-up artist or silly production coordinator who offers their opinions about certain aspect of the talent. "Oh, you should wear a tighter shirt" or "the make-up is not right". Hello? Worse, away from production locations, in public places, like in the pool, one man was offering his advise about my swimming. I don't even know him! For what's it's worth, just shut your trap, ok?

Smoking? TAK NAK!

Hardship 2: You are being looked at funnily when dressed a bit differently. TAK NAK!
Our society is made of people who are processed from childhood to conform into their birth categories of religion, race and status. During school days, we are given uniforms, When we're working, each are assigned to their own dresscodes. What's worst is, in social settings, if an artiste dressed a bit differently, you'll be looked at as if you don't belong or pathetic. Sorry, of course I'm different from you. I'm an artiste, hello? Unless you're judging me in a PHOTO CONTEST, then you can look at me indiscriminately.

Hardship 3: You are asked selfish questions only to benefit other people. TAK NAK!
I hate it when people asked me how much I earned in all my commercials. Or the amount of money I earned from those local TV dramas.Psst..psst...being a Chinese Male talent in Malaysia who only speaks English and BM (Chinese can converse but cannot read), my status in the whole scheme of things in our entertainment industry is very LOW. My height is only 170cm tall and body not that hunky, come on. Hence, my pay is also very low. I mean, what's the point of you knowing anyway? (unless you're my student in Artiste Training Course and thinking of DUIT FREE or easy money). I'm talking about people on the street who asked these kind of questions. The thing with these questions is it is hooked with an ulterior motive - "so how can I become a talent like you?" Well, I don't have a clue, darling! You need to qualify to become my student first, then I'll know what are your strengths and weaknesses. How on earth am I going to tell you on the spot? It'll be unfair to you for me to assess you so quickly.

Hardship 4: You are invited to press/job interviews not for the intended purpose but to give others a chance to judge you. TAK NAK!
I've been invited by this well-known English daily newspaper to come to their office for a so-called interview, only to have 3 or 4 of unknown fellows in the conference room with me, just looking at me up and down like I'm some kind of latest gadget in the market. I was expecting those few fellows to be jotting down what I have say, but they were just smiling and looking curious. Also there were a few incidents already, I've been called for a job interview, and the interviewers are just keen to see how I look like in person. See, an artiste couldn't get a job that easily. What's worst, I am perceived as some kind of non-committed freak in the employment market - someone who cannot stays long in a job. So hard to earn a living.....

I want to be free!

Hardship 5: Your stuff could be stolen. TAK NAK!
I cannot count how many stuff I've lost in my lifetime. The most recent is my swimming goggles and trunks at the pool. My gosh, I just left it at the shower for a moment, and poof it was gone! At that time, my mind was so caught up with the ideas for this entry. I don't know who or what the culprit is going to do with my stuff, since its a worn pair of Philosophy white trunks and the orange lenses goggles are taken without the container (if anyone of you identified anyone wearing these at the pool, report to me asap with details!). Probably he'll auction it off at ebay and make big claims of the stuff being worn by some unknown celebrity so the price would skyrocket. Not only my stuff are stolen, artistes themselves are cheated by the production companies (even established ones, mind you) with their talent fees cut and reduced substantially for some unjustified "mistakes" concocted by unscrupulous people.

Hardship 6: Your health could be at risk. TAK NAK!
Being an artiste, you'll be offered all kinds of temptations that could risk your health permanently. Like cigarettes or drugs. During my course as a working artiste, believe me, people do come up and offer me cigarettes. But I know since I was young that SMOKING KILLS. I lost my father at a young age, so I relied on my uncle as a sole male figure in my young life. But my uncle died from lung cancer, stolen away from me forever by cigarettes! What irritates me the most is even my step-brothers smoked and I hated it so much since from young, hence I'm repelled automatically. Smoking also makes a family break up and in turmoil. But for young aspiring artistes, don't think holding out a cigarette is cool and make you feel part of a group. Truth is, after the smoking session is long over, where is this group of yours? Long gone, baby. And you are left with a nasty habit. If you're an artiste who smokes, your looks will take a dreadful toll. And who wants to look old before their time? Hello, wake up. It's time to be healthy. For more info on healthy lifestyle, go to LINK: GAYA HIDUP SIHAT www.gayahidupsihat.my .

There you have it. All the interesting weirdos crawling freely in our societies these days. So how can an artiste protect him/herself? It's never easy, when facing these hardships in real life. It's totally different vibe from reading it here. That's why I come up with the personal coaching for artistes through my Artiste Training Course (not only for aspiring artistes, but for established ones as well). Take heed of these 6 hardships, and make a stand for yourself towards freedom! Simply say these 2 simple words: TAK NAK.

Digi iPhone 4SURE MOST AFFORDABLE

2011-12-14T20:29:00.001+08:00

I love the Digi iPhone because it's so affordable for everyone with their different needs and various price points to satisfy pockets of every size. Digi truly puts their minds (and hearts) into reaching their markets for sure. The most basic 1GB data costs only RM55, and it comes with so many extras like auto billing, voice call, sms and mms . The second plan I'm sure to be everyone's usual data usage, that is the 3GB that only cost RM88. Finally, for the heavy user, for sure they only have to pay RM156 and comes with a whopping 5GB, inclusive of all the extras! That is already so affordable because with 5GB, your iPhone would already be a dream device in which you can do so many wonders online. For sure. No other.

How my "Friend" gives Plus-sized people everywhere a bad name. First Rule of Happiness - Stay Away from the Unlucky and Unhappy (doesn't relate to plus-sized)

2011-12-11T00:39:00.001+08:00

NATIONWIDE SURVEY, HURRAY!
On the side note, as a reference for my upcoming blog entry, I am launching a national Race Confidence Index (RCI) survey for my Malaysian readers here, kindly submit your answers (only once) to KRISLAWFANCLUB@GMAIL.COM. Your answer should have a headline "RCI", followed by your answer either A,B,C,D,E or F. You can remain anonymous upon submitting your answer.

QUESTION: If you are race-less and gender-less new talent/aspiring artiste, which of the following categories you would prefer to be identified as in light of the perceived privileges or exposure accorded in the entertainment industry?
A) Indian Female
B) Indian Male
C) Chinese Female
D) Chinese Male
E) Malay Female
F) Malay Male

Stay Away from Me!

Derogatory but Necessary
Fat and ugly. Two derogatory words I NEVER use on anyone, except for this particular "friend" whom I now vowed to stay away from recently after an incident. He gives all plus-sized people a bad name, seriously, he himself is in that category and he truly personifies the two derogatory words I've just mentioned. You see, I befriend anyone who are willing to be my friends regardless of their physical traits, status, sexual orientation etc. These second tier criteria such as physical traits are something beyond anyone's control. But things that are within the control of everyone is their attitude and manner of articulation. And oh, the words that come out from the mouth of this "friend" of mine is simply made for friendship-wrecking.

All sizes and shapes are Accepted

Plus-sized leaning on the soft train buffer

The year 2011 is ending soon. Isn't it time to give yourself the happiness you truly deserved? A lot of my past students after completing my course are much able to get happiness, because of their changed perception. My course in Acting, TV Hosting, Modelling and Directing isn't just about the technical aspects, but also involves the mentality development as well. (to enquire more, simply email to krislawfanclub@gmail.com) My students treat me as their friend, not like a teacher.A teacher becoming a friend, I must be cautious. This is because eventually you do become part of your friend, and he/she will become part of you. Friendships are meant to be shared, and you do become your friends whom you mixed with. Take this plus-sized "friend" (a non-student mind you) of mine. He constantly needs to shove stuff into his mouth! Crackers. Bread. Roti Canai. Simply anything! Since becoming his friend, I myself am influenced by his snacks-binging. I noticed my weight ballooned the last time I was out with him.

You Become Who You Mix With
People with uncontrollable eating habits are not usually good at articulating threats and cynicism. But not this "friend" of mine. He talked like nobody's business! And a lot of times he hurled some extremely cynical words at me, on topics that are totally none of his business - on my career, my personal life, my schedule, my friends. I don't mind sharing, but he did it under the pretense that he cared for me. What's worst is, he would use back the info with a threat to expose me to other people. Fat and ugly, isn't it?

The Sponge-Effect

Happiness - only when you mix with the right crowd or the right teacher!

From this bad encounter, I felt it infuses me the purpose to really make my body fit and better. I am not happy with my current body since befriending him, for he has a way of telling how ugly I look, as if he is some kind of image consultant (in his dream, since he has a lot of self-delusions about himself). Well, he should look at himself! I weighed 10kg less than him. Again, your friends' insecurities will slowly seep in and become YOUR OWN insecurities. That's why it's important to mix with friends who are positive and with the right mental attitude. I know a few plus-sized people who doesn't have any of those insecurities mentioned and they don't force on their friends to think like they do.

Plus-sized checking himself at wash basin

Delusions of Grandeur
Looking at him, he truly does give all plus-sized people a bad name. He has an awful state of delusions in his head - like the people he has slept with, and the need for a big one from Egyptian men. By now, we all know which sexuality he is, which I am not against, just his boastfulness and conceit. He constantly heaped his stories from his past love affairs onto me - a kind of nostalgic escapade from his current state of sadness, in which he's trying to hide with all the puffery of his grand high-class self delusions. I never think that plus-sized people could be as delusional as he is. As for me, I have no choice but to listen to his stories during that time simply because I am being a friend, in which I don't think he realise.

Plus-sized walking up the stairs

Consciously Sabotage this Friendship
So beware who your friends are! You do become like them. Spending time with him has made me to become a little bit of him - causing a kind of sponge-like effect on my personality and thinking. So in my attempt to cut away from him, I went to visit him at his place. He has the tendency to criticise other people's clothing and how bad it smell. So I took the opportunity to comment on his sofa and how smelly the pillows surrounding it. A few times, some cockroaches flew into his house, and I made a huge dramatic gesture at it, hinting to him how dirty his house has become now when even insects began to flock inside. He ate a lot of crackers and the bits and pieces are let fall on the floor without care. And when we were watching the television, and news of suicide bombers in Egypt was on, I reminded him to becareful not to mistaken a dynamite in his ass with the real thing during coitus. The final blow was on his underwear smell. I came into his place quite unannounced and he would be in his underwear in front of the laptop! There were a few instances where he even tried to seduce me, urgh!

Plus-sized at the mamak

Intimates Hurling (Sorry, not me)
From that comment, he immediately tried to prove how clean his underwear was, he even suggested we take off our intimates to exchange to smell, in which I immediately refused on the spot! Sorry, I won't do such crazy thing to prove such a small point. I have taken his cynicism and turned it back against him. He suddenly went into a rage and walked inside his room for a moment. When he came out, he attempted to shove his underwear right into my direction! Good fortune on my side, in which I was able to push it away in good reflexes with my hand. After that, I told him that I wouldn't come visit him anymore, for his rude treatment of his guests. There's the cut-off point, which I made very clear. Again, not all plus-sized people behaved this way. But for my own sake, I have to forego this so-called friendship, for it is detrimental to my mental and physical.

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Digi iPhone 4SURE 4 ME

2011-12-10T17:44:00.001+08:00

I want the iPhone 4S for the very basic reason - I've never own one before! I've heard wonderful reviews and fantastic raves about the phone, hence the desire of wanting one has been there since its initial launch. IPhone 4S is the total package smartphone - from the design up to its software is world-class quality and that makes Digi on par with it as well. This iPhone 4S is definitely MINE, and will be so precious to me, I will never share it with anyone else but me, me, me! The others can weep and covet and burn! I don't care that I'm vain like Narcissus, just let me drown in Digi waters to have the iPhone 4S in my hands.

Digi iPhone 4SURE I DO 1ST

2011-12-09T00:39:00.001+08:00

The 1st thing I will do when I got my hands on the new iPhone 4S is to tell all my friends that I'm calling them using the iPhone 4S! I seldom make calls, and owning a spanking new iPhone 4s would surely motivate me to make more calls to my friends and family using Digi. I will be the first to make the most calls to all my friends and family. The 1st to be the most busy-body callers, spreading the news that I won the iPhone 4S and how great Digi service is. The 1st to be the proud winner that everybody wants to look up to. Only the 1st can do. Welcome to the 1st Club - current members are Digi, iPhone 4S, Kris Law (that's me)....and....and.....that's all!

PC Fair 2011 Review - Construction, Ambience & Product offerings. One word to sum it up - CRAMPED!

2011-12-09T00:02:00.001+08:00

The Good Type of Cramped vs The PC Fair Cramped

Go PC Fair, not Credit Card Fair
People go to PC Fair to buy IT stuff. I went to PC Fair to apply for a credit card. Funny isn't it? Well, come to think of it, I didn't actually set out to apply for credit card at the fair, it just so happened. You know, the recent PC Fair was held at KLCC Convention Centre. The last time I was there was to attend a conference. The last year I was at PC Fair, I bought a new camera. The timing for this fair was fantastic, because it happens to be the school holidays - throngs of people were exodusing to the main hall. Notice the word "exodus", for the journey was a LONG one! To review a fair like this, one needs to consider these factors: construction, ambience and product offerings. A world of difference compared to my Fashion Reviews . This fair was cramped with people! And the feeling wasn't as pleasant as me being cramped with my dear students at the picture above.

Long walk ahead!

Buckle Your Walking Shoes
Here's where the construction bit comes into play. Imagine if you're a normal folk like me, taking the LRT. From the train station, I have to walk all the way up to the shopping mall. People were quieuing horrendously long, some with their whole family in tow! Some with their girlfriends and boyfriends. Some were in a group of friends. I think the best form factor when in such a situation is to travel singularly - meaning don't bring anyone with you. Imagine the hassle of taking care and making sure all your friends or family members are not gone astray.

Notice we are at the underground carpark

The Art of Walking - Cut Everyone!
After I reached the mall, I have to pass through the shoppers, all with their big bags. Gosh, it was indeed a hassle. Some folks were walking so god-awfully slowly, I have to cut them unapologetically. Upon arrival in the mall, I have to further walked through the carpark underground which leads to the ground floor of the convention hall. I've been through this long walks before, and took the opportunity as a form of exercise. You will see the "Pusat Konvensyen" sign. For first timers, it seems like a labyrinth and get lost! But one tip - simply follow the crowd.

"Slaughterhouse", Here We Come!
Once you enter, you'll see a food court. At the center of the court, there's an escalator leading you up to the convention hall level. When you reached the floor, again you have to walk to the designated huge door where the signs will lead you to the fair. I think the word fair is used quite unjudiciously for an event like this - the more appropriate word could be "market". You see, when I entered, I heard screams of offers and best buys everywhere!

The sign to warn visitors on their way to the "slaughterhouse"!

There were people standing on top of chair, holding placards, shouting about their products. A flurry of noise just rushed into my head. It suddenly shuts my mind from all these crazy noise. My purpose is to apply for a credit card, so I better set off to find the booth. Now it's a very funny contruction for this event hall. You actually have to pass through the whole hall, in order to get through to the exit. Mind you, there are 2 entry points but only 1 exit! In a way, it feels so trapped to be in this fair.

Cramped walkway further cramped by human displays.

So many offerings, so little of interest
So to ease my journey, I try to savour every moment of all the hustle and bustle. Maybe I could even spot some nice offers here. Of course earlier, you guys know I have a desire to get either a Smartphone or Tablet. You may think I found paradise here, but I assure you I was very careful and asked all the necessary questions. Products that interested me where Samsung Galaxy SII, where Digi is offering, but looking at it, no matter how appealling, still have that 2 year commitment, and the model is not even the latest anymore. Then there's another booth offering Sony products. But the caveat of these products are the accessories. I got disgusted when I see the silicone casing with the Chelsea logo at the back. Come on, is there aren't any other more generic look?

It's like cruising through a sea of water and not one is worth a drop. Finally I found the credit card. The Maybankard is surely hard to apply, I was rejected before. Then when I noticed how gung-ho the sales people were, I relented. Actually, the freebies are what pique me most, but Maybank offered this measly free gift not even worthy of the trouble - a small tumbler. Urgh! After I've submitted my details, it's time to go exit. Imagine my horror, when I saw lines of sales people gathered in rows - all begging or harrassing visitors for business or some sigh-ups. I got stopped by another credit card salesperson from Hong Leong Bank, which is offering free movie passes. These salespeople are expert at making you feel like a Star.

Freebies Wallop!
After one salesperson, comes the next from RHB Bank that offers a very nice free gift, actually, a pair of headphones, which will be useful for my listening to my Walkman. After that comes UOB with its offers to stay at the Palace of the Golden Horses and also a small pocket Swiss knife. And finally the Citibank were also there to sign me up for the free chequebook services in exchange for an umbrella. of course, I walloped all these free gifts, hahaha. But this is the season to be giving , so I felt a bit "guilty".

A much needed break...
After exiting the fair, I walked up to Secret Recipe for some much deserved rest. I ordered a Cheesecake with lots of nuts in it - very rich and nutty. At my seat, I began to count my "blessings" of all the free gifts, mostly useless stuff except the headphones. The ambience at the cafe was one in which I can rest and observe and contemplate, unlike at the fair which was all crazy! The product offerings at the fair is mainly driven by PRICE and the free gifts, that is pretty much. I was adamant to purchase any branded stuff there, for I heard a rumor that some of the specs weren't up to par, or even original? Oh well, for now I can say the PC Fair 2011 was another resounding success on the organisers' part. Next time, can we make more exits at the fair?

NATIONWIDE SURVEY, HURRAY!
On the side note, as a reference for my upcoming blog entry, I am launching a national Race Confidence Index (RCI) survey for my Malaysian readers here, kindly submit your answers (only once) to KRISLAWFANCLUB@GMAIL.COM. Your answer should have a headline "RCI", followed by your answer either A,B,C,D,E or F. You can remain anonymous upon submitting your answer.

QUESTION: If you are race-less and gender-less new talent/aspiring artiste, which of the following categories you would prefer to be identified as in light of the perceived privileges or exposure accorded in the entertainment industry?
A) Indian Female
B) Indian Male
C) Chinese Female
D) Chinese Male
E) Malay Female
F) Malay Male

Goodbye & Hello!

2011-12-04T00:29:00.001+08:00

Death

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It's the last call to all humanity. The closing chapter of this life, and the opening of the next. Say goodbye to 2011! Time to welcome 2012 very soon. What's in store for the coming year? More love? More money? More scandal? Life is a constant stream of thrills and spills - neverending, always moving.... You think you have time, but all you have is this moment. And then poof...it is gone forever. Same thing applies to this blog.

Life is always in motion. Everybody is either moving or getting moved. That's why I would like to start this entry with death. Don't you all know there are no certainties in life except death? Ambition, jealousy, money, fame, glory, unfair criticism from others...all these are mere illusions and vanish in an instant! So why worry about anything? Just enjoy life, and take one moment at a time. People may cheat you, talk behind your back. You may not clinch the job you wanted, or get the life partner you desires. Your boss is heartless and cruel. But who cares? Why cared at all? Soon, all these are coming to an end.

LIFE

What on Earth am I talking about? I am urging all readers here to click the "Follow" button to this blog, and my Facebook and Youtube accounts, that is if you still want to read my blog. This is because in a moment (any moment in fact), I might be closing all access from others. Don't say I never WARN you....I have. Once this blog is privatised - no more unknown folks will be dropping by my blog. It also gives me more freedom to share my best and juiciest tips to my trustworthy followers (if you're not now, go and click "follow" immediately). The coming blog entries will be:

More Artiste-Empowering Tips
* How to walk the walk, and talk the talk.

More Personal, Scandalous Stories
* How to catch the Ideal Housemate

More Eye-Popping Sexy Pictures
* Global Rendezvous

More Glittery Events to Cover
* PC Fair 2011 review

More Happening Products to Review
* Sony Walkman review

What more do you want? Life is short. You think you know more than others...better than others. In fact, all you know is now. What happens next is beyond our control. Thinking about this, I feel more relaxed. There is no point to worry about what is going to happen in the future. All we need to concentrate is the HERE and NOW.

Digi iPhone 4SURE SIRI ANSWERS

2011-11-26T00:31:00.001+08:00

Siri and Digi are my best companions for very Simple and absolutely Super important reasons - one makes everything Simple when I ask complex questions, the other provides me the Service. I need guidance when using my new iPhone 4s because I'm still new and never used one before so Siri would be a great help in navigating the iPhone 4S simply by using my voice to get answers! Digi is my best companion because of its quality service at very affordable plans that everyone, meaning all Malaysians can join. When these 2 become my companions, nothing can beat us in this great partnership and extremely potent combination! Other competitors fall flat with a big "S" on their heads!

The Ultimate 6-Step Guide to Shield You for the Christmas and Year-End Shopping Frenzy (Electronics Gadgets specific)

2011-11-22T00:36:00.001+08:00

Santa's Top Elf Boy ready to spread JOY to the world

The Christmas and end of the year is coming soon, and all the top electronics giants specifically are setting up their big marketing guns to aim at our hard-earned money (and some inherited from their ancestors) to splurge on their products. Personally, I love to buy stuff, but as I grow older, I notice how hard I worked for my money, and truly want to spend it on stuff that I only truly needs - hence that's my Buyer's Psychology. Besides, being of limited resources, I truly enjoy the idea of not owning anything precious or expensive. When you are of limited resources, you learn to enjoy everything you owned and waste lesser than those who are reasonably richer with cash to splurge on the latest. So how do normal folks like us who wants to buy some really cool, expensive electronic gadget once in a blue moon, without being conned by the electronic giants? Below are some Strategic Steps you should follow before embarking on your shopping spree:

STEP 1: Do Research
Lately, I've developed a secret wanting to buy a smartphone. But there are simply so many options! You have Apple, Samsung, HTC and even traditional internet companies like Google and Microsoft are rolling out smartphones! But beyond smartphones, there is another category of hot internet device - the tablet! Oh my, in my college days, owning a notebook was already considered "it". And now, Samsung is pioneering the in-between smartphone and tablet category by launching the Galaxy Note. In the midst of these dizzying array of devices, one must really do research online. I often bet 2 devices against each other, say Iphone 4s vs Samsung Galaxy Note or Ipad2 vs Galaxy Tab. Now you must remember, there are newer and better models being released every quarter year or so, so even that you have to keep yourself up-to-date. Not to mention the operating system softwares: Froyo ( not Frodo from LOTR, ai-yo-yo), Gingerbread (my bread only with kaya, no ginger please!), Honeycomb, Ice-cream Sandwich (sounds delicious) and of course Apple's own OS5. Unfortunately in Malaysia, we seem to receive the latest models 2 or 3 months after it was launched. When the product is launched, go and test out. Be aware of the promotions offered by our local telcos companies, but usually the bundled packages make you spend more for things you don't really need and use fully to its capacity.

See my eyes, you're now under my spell...

STEP 2: Don't let others influence your purchase decision
Often in the LRT, I can observe some people popping out their devices and busily typing or multi-touching away their screen. It can be quite disheartening when a person is doing that and you're next to him or her. You tried not to peek at their multi-touch super LCD, AMOLED, or Retina Display, but you simply cannot help it - simply for the damn reason it is there! And it's always fun to watch the clips or games they are playing, and wish you have one just like that. Now, hold on to your horses! It is at this precise moment that you must stop, and think. Personally for me, I find devices like these irritating. Some people think you're Jealous of their "superior" device, when noticed you're peeking (unintentionally), they turned their shoulders back at you with the devices away from you, as if to protect their so-called privacy. Well, then in the first place, you shouldn't be multi-touching your device in public places (multi-touch yourself instead of your device, haha). Having that irritation often repels me from considering that particular brand in my purchase decision. Hopefully that will help you too.

Looking for my "baby"

STEP 3: Know your real needs for the product
I have a friend who owned a Galaxy Tab 7inch which is an old model, and he's simply satisfied with it. He told me that all he needs from his device is to surf the internet (then he would go on and complained how hopeless our country's wi-fi connection is). Of course, he won't make any calls using his device primarily because he has another handphone (cheapo type). Listening to his incessantly negative babble (he worked as a journalist before), I actually learned something. Why on Earth would I want a smartphone or a tablet for? I am happy as I am, I got a Sony walkman to listen to when I commute, and a netbook I can surf the net. Suddenly I discovered that I could actually use the device to keep my appointments and to-do list, paperless and toss away the the Good, Old Diary. That would be good for the environment, right? So I went and tried out the Galaxy Note - unfortunately, I find using the S-Pen quite slow for me, because I write fast. And the S-Pen response lacks the speed I was looking for as compared to good old traditional pen and paper. Of course, you must also know what sort of environment you're in when using the device. Like myself, I'm always on the go, would I be comfortable multi-touching my Ipad while walking? Would I accidentally bump into another person in the street, causing my head to went straight into my Ipad screen and detonate an explosion? Would I be comfortable drawing using my S-Pen on the Galaxy Note or the Magic Pen on the HTC Flyer while waiting for a bus, thus keeping me totally immersed with my device and causing me to miss my bus?

STEP 4: Be aware of the effects of advertising
I worked in the advertising industry before, so I know how it affects purchase decision. What's more, I worked as an actor in our local entertainment before, so I know when to avoid buying anything whenever I see a local celebrity endorsing a particular brand of electronics, restaurant or fashion retail outlet. Seriously, advertising works in mischievous ways without you realising it. Remember the recent demise of Apple founder Steve Jobs? The announcement of his death was barely 24 hours after the launch of Iphone 4s. In my super-conductive mind, it made me suspect his death was earlier except and they might held onto the news from the public until after the launch of the product? And see how the sales skyrocketed! I do respect the company, its philosophy, its products and the founder, but not to the point of being an evangelist. So back to my purchase decision, you truly need to clear your mind from the influences of the media before purchasing anything. Don't subliminally con me to buy your product out of some emotional deception, because I won't. Don't deceive me by showing how many others are using it, because I am not like the many others, I am unique. I've got a friend who always say Apple is the best, anything must buy Apple (what the heck! Small screen - must squint your eyes, no Long Term Evolution etc). Personally as an artiste, I will not subject my expressive eyes to such an ordeal of squinting at a small screen. Well, you're in the herd, baby. Remember: buying an Apple product doesn't make you any smarter, think more different or design-wise more superior than others. That's the company, not you dummy.

I always tell my students - you have choices.

STEP 5: List your choices
Before you can come to this step, you need to go through the ones before this. As for myself, I have decided to go for the tablet, because I don't need a smartphone to call people. I only need information on the go, since I am always outside. Remember, once you decided a category of products to purchase, there's a few brand names competing within the category itself in Specs Supremacy alone, so you have another round of head-bunking to do. Now I am writing as someone from a limited resources standpoint, but if you have money to splurge, by all means get both the tablet and smartphone. Once you have your list ready, eliminate the ones you don't want. I know it's hard because all the products out there look so good - the Google Nexus, Samsung Galaxy SII, Iphone 4s, Ipad 2, Galaxy Tab Plus etc. But remember you are spending hundreds of ringgit, some even surpassing RM2000! Don't go broke from buying stuff you don't need, that's all I'm telling you.

Silence and Patience...Santa is coming.

STEP 6: And finally, patience
Once you purchase an electronics devise, stick with it, and use it fully and with a feeling of happiness. I remember I bought my latest Sony Walkman, and 2 weeks after that, the touchscreen model was launched. I regretted a bit for purchasing it, but after much thought, I feel I have to stand for my purchase decision. No doubt the latest Sony Walkman has Bluetooth with touchscreen (capacitive or otherwise ), and costs almost RM800, where else my current one was three hundred bucks less than that. If the price falls within that range, I better get an Ipod right? But I learnt my lesson, and that is patience. Don't go crazy over some launch, and buy stuff you'll regret later - there's no point. I know I want to get the Samsung Galaxy Tab 7.7inch, but it's not even available! What to do? And how about the Asus Transformer Prime which has the fastest processing speed, as claimed? Patience, wait and see - this type of attitude gives me more time to consider maybe an Ipad2, and also to save up money later for an Ipad 3 with phone functions and even a stylus? (Damn, if the current release of tablets' price ranges is the same as Ipad2, I'll wait for the Ipad3). I remembered anticipating the Galaxy Note, but when it was launched, immediately I was having second thoughts of buying it because I finally went through all the steps I've listed here. Hopefully, it'll help guide you too in this upcoming crazy shopping season before you depart your hard-earned cash. At the end of the day, you might not even spend a ringgit purchasing after you go through my steps, which is not a bad thing after all. But the economy only works when you spend. Why not spend on other stuff (like a short course in upgrading your skills?), not only on electronics gadgets which becomes instantly dated less than a year. Electronics companies are good at witholding and releasing one great feature at a time, causing the consumers to spend bundles on one. Later only to discover there's another new, better and shinier feature - causing the consumer to spend unnecessary. As for me, I'll just end up not buying and spend my days watching stupid TV shows. (Suddenly I feel like some super-everything-must-be-perfect freak) Unlike taking a Communications Course, where all the good stuff are revealed to you at once, no holding back. Knowledge stays in-style, in-trend for good. A good Communications Strategy Coach will do you even more good like preparing you for Reality TV Shows, Casting and exude Your Inner Star Quality. So what are you waiting for? Quickly decide what you want to buy now.....or at least before the year ends.

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3 things Malaysians won't take notice when left unattended in public areas and why you should always have it with you.

2011-11-15T22:14:00.001+08:00

My father looking back

Being a child who lost his father at age 3 in a traumatic car accident, the fear of losing things was instilled in me since young. Of course now, being an adult, I am learning to let go, but to varying success. Losing stuff really makes me worried in the beginning. During my 20s, the fear of being alone was always there. So having stuff around me seems to be of comfort - books, clothes, electronic gadgets etc. Of course we all lose stuff. But as I am beginning to let go of that fear, I began to notice something. Not all stuff that you lose, are lost forever. Sometimes they come back, or re-appear. And that is truly a great feeling to see the stuff you thought you lost, reappears again. It gives me that sentimental hope (no matter how thin it maybe) that even though I lost my father at a very young age, perhaps I might meet him again someday in the next life.

Towel waiting for its master

Losing stuff is never a good thing. Especially if that stuff cost you a lot of money. Like handphone or camera. Interestingly, there are basically 3 things that I owned specifically, that actually "returns". The first thing I want to mention here is my towel. I used to bring along a huge towel with me to the pool whenever I want to swim. But it's so heavy to carry it home, after using it, because it's wet and took much space in my bag. So the next day, I decided to use a smaller towel, akin to a face towel, just to dry my wet body. And it worked just fine. My body is not that big, hence even a small towel is sufficient to dry it. But my own clumsiness! After drying myself, I left the small towel hanging at the iron rod near to the shower area, to dry. In the midst of my hurry, I forgot to bring it back with me. So the next day, I went back to the pool, and to my pleasant surprise - it was still there at exactly the same spot where I left it! Of course it was raining, and that poor towel of mine was like a little puppy just waiting to be reunited with its master.

Trustworthy umbrella
Now the second stuff that Malaysians won't usually take when you left it in public area is the umbrella. I truly hate buying umbrellas, because I am so specific of the size, shape and length of an umbrella - due to the limited space in my bag and I'm always on the go. So the umbrella must be in the right shape and length to fit in nicely, also it must open to a reasonable covering in the event of rain. My losing of the umbrella incident came on the way home in the LRT train. The journey was tediously long, and it just rained. So I snoozed all the way back, and left my umbrella hanging at my side - to let the water drip away while I slept. When my station arrived, I quickly awoke from my nap and totally forgot that I left my trustworthy umbrella in the train! But I knew the train would turn back after the last stop, so I waited at the opposite side of the platform. I only remembered the shape of the train, and estimated which seat position I was at the time I left it. Thank goodness my memory was sharp and able to keep the details. After waiting a while, the next train arrived at the opposite side. When the door slides open, my humble little umbrella was still there, clinging at the side of the seat - waiting for me. I quickly stepped inside, grabbed my umbrella and stepped out before the door slides closed.

See the stuff I wore? Left it in the train

Taking care of your stuff
The final thing that Malaysians won't even bother is the underwear. Yes it's true. Unless you intentionally want to be filthy and want others to have it, don't even bother that others are going to take it. Of course, it also depends what brand of intimates you have. Like mine, I value each and every piece, so I will never leave it anywhere! Of course, I never leave my intimates around, but I simply don't understand others who do! Unless you're sleeping with someone you love, that act would be justifiable. If you're not, best to keep it to yourself. Men's underwear costs a bundle these days, especially those reputable brands. I know this is an interesting entry, but it's something I love to share with my readers here. That's all you're getting, not my underwear, haha!

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Ragam Warga Kota KL Suka Duduk, Benci Berdiri - ada yang kelakar, ada yang keji. Buntut-ku penat "mencaci"...oops.

2011-11-11T00:04:00.001+08:00

Jom guna kaki kita - berjalan, jangan leka.

Hari istimewa, entry "istimewa"
Hari istimewa 11hb November 2011, 11/11/11. Bila lagi tarikh sedemikian akan berulang lagi? Hidup kita singkat, masa tidak panjang. Jangan leka....asyik duduk bermimpi. Masa belajar, kena belajar. Waktu bekerja, kena bekerja. Bertindak sekarang dan berjalan ke sini juga! Hehe, bergurau. Manfaat besar bila manusia berjalan. Dah lama Kris tak tulis dalam BM, jadi kali ini nak masuk entry baru.

Tuhan bagi kita dua belah kaki. Macam Kris ini, suka berjalan ke sana sini, tak suka pandu kereta. Kira satu senaman yang Aktif dan bagus. Bila kita resah atau sedih, ada manfaatnya kita berjalan. Lagipun, aktiviti berjalan begitu senang sekali. Hanya perlu kaki, dan kasut. Di mana-mana sahaja, bole berjalan. Di taman. Di tepi jalan. Atas bukit. Bawah jambatan. Yang pelik, pelajar Kris dari Luar Negara lebih tahan berdiri dan rela berjalan jika dibanding dengan pelajar tempatan. Ingin tahu lanjut mengenai kursus, sila email segala pertanyaan anda ke krislawfanclub@gmail.com

Waktu sesi dalam kelas Kursus Latihan

Belajar Berjalan dalam Kelas
Bila Kris berjalan, semua dukacita hilang begitu sahaja. Rasa sedih (mengenang arwah ayah Kris yang meninggal semenjak usia 3 tahun), tak puas hati (kenapa orang lain bole kaya, saya tidak?), dengki (kenapa orang lain lagi cantik, saya tidak?), suka maki orang (orang tut-tut-tut ini memang *^%*!) - semua perasaan negatif HILANG dalam sekelip mata dengan aktiviti BERJALAN. Punca fikiran negatif ini terjadi dari aktiviti malas - terlalu banyak menonton drama TV.. Kadang kala manusia sendiri malas untuk menggunakan ciptaan Tuhan yang indah dan tersedia dari saat kita dilahirkan dalam dunia fana ini. Kemalasan tersebut bole dikurangkan menerusi KURSUS LATIHAN ARTIS saya, di mana kebanyakan pelajar berjaya menimba pengalaman bekerja di Dunia Sebenar . Semua pelajar saya digalakkan melakukan aktiviti (yang mesti guna kaki) untuk tujuan belajar. Ada yang disuruh berjalan, ada yang disuruh untuk mereka cerita. Manusia yang lemah, hanya asyik fikir nak duduk ...nak rehatkan buntut mereka yang selalunya letih. Bukan nak burukkan sesiapa, tetapi sebagai iktibar dan contoh untuk pembaca di sini untuk menilai dan mengkaji sikap kita. Ingat, jika kita hina orang lain, kita sebenarnya menghina diri sendiri. Semua bangsa - tak kira Cina, Melayu atau Melanau adalah sama - 1 Malaysia. Mari kita lihat contoh manusia yang suka duduk tak rata:

Anakku dibiar bertapak main sana-sini
Tak kira Metro di Paris, atau Subway di New York, manusia sememangnya tidak mengambil peduli sesama sendiri sewaktu menumpang tren. Yang peliknya bila seorang ayah dan anak kecilnya duduk. Ya, tak apa, biar sahaja anak kecil duduk, tapi sampai benarkan anaknya bertapak diri di atas tempat duduk? Tak pernah fikir betapa kotornya tapak kasut anaknya? Dah banyak kali Kris menyaksikan sikap cuai pihak ibubapa yang biar sahaja anak mereka meliar dan mengotorkan dalaman tren LRT - buang sampah, air liur etc. Si ayah tersebut nampak begitu megah sekali dapat tempat duduk dengan anak kecilnya....Tak rasa peduli langsung dengan sepasang lagi ibubapa di tepi anak kecilnya yang tengah seronok meronta-ronta. TIPS PENTING: Kawasan paling terbiar dan yang paling tidak dicuci - tapak kasut anda! Kena cuci juga supaya kasut lebih tahan lama..

Beg aku besar tau, jangan dekat.
Ini pula waktu menunggu bas di stesen bas percuma di Mid Valley Megamall. Tahu la baju makcik-makcik ni dah Cantik & Glamor kan? Takkan la beg pun nak tayang bagi seluruh warga kota di stesen bas? Jadual bas awam kita tak menentu, kesian ada orang lain nak duduk berehat kejap pun tak bole sebab kena "pau" oleh beg. Jika bole, beg letak la aja kat atas riba kaki. Mungkin si makcik tersebut tak dapat kawal nafsu nak popeh dengan kawannya tu, sampai lupa nak angkat beg. Bahaya.

Kontol ku besar perlu ruang "bernafas"
Ini pula pakcik tua yang duduk kat tepi Kris. Konon la lelaki jantan, perlukan "ruang" yang besar kat tengah-tengah dua belah kaki dia tu sampai terkangkang. Tak bole kempit kat ruang sensitif tu, kena bagi ruang "bernafas" konon la. Tapi, tengok la ruang tempat duduk yang dimakan tu! Dalam tren, tempat duduk pun dah cukup ketat, mana ada ruang lagi untuk pakcik nafaskan "kejantanan" dia ya? Tolong la...jangan "terhidu" ruang tempat duduk awam yang terhad.

Pelbagai guna tudung - tutup aurat dan hidung!

Akak terbau benda busuk
Cepat-cepat kena pergi beli minyak wangi Dior atau Homme. Ini contoh ragam warga kota kita yang kelakar pun ada, pelik pun ada. Bayangkan anda duduk dalam tren, dan penumpang di tepi anda asyik tutup hidungnya - macam la anda berbau busuk kan? Sedangkan Kris selalu pakai minyak wangi yang berharga beratus-ratus ringgit (ceh, dah miskin pun kena berbau wangi, susah la), hahaha, busuk lagi ke akak? Takpe la....ragam lucu tu. Jika tak lucu, sila kentut. TIPS LUCU: Jika nak orang di tren jauhi anda dan berikan anda tempat duduk secara automatik, pakai baju busuk yang dah berbulan-bulan tak dicuci. Ppppuuutt! Berkesan.

Badanku besar, penuh berharga
Bukan semuanya buruk. Ada di antara warga kota KL memang penuh berhati-hati. Jika tempat duduk itu di sebelahnya ada seorang kakak/abang yang berbadan besar, baik jangan duduk kat tepi dia, nanti sempit dan tersekat! Tapi ada baiknya berbadan besar, mana-mana sahaja duduk, orang lain tak berani kacau kita atau cuba mendekati kita dalam tren. Kira kawasan kita terjamin-la ya? Berat Kris pun mesti kena cepat-cepat naik ya....sampai 70kg ok tak?

Sempitnya tempat duduk
Bukan beg sahaja yang menjadi halangan, tempat duduk dalam bas kita ada yang sempit juga. Beg pinggang pula dipakai, mesti susah nak himpit semua dalam satu ruang yang kecil itu. Orang Malaysia dah semakin membesar, pandangan kita pun semakin meluas, betul tak? Minum susu berkalsium tinggi lagi tu. Mesti la semua besar-besar, hahaha. Jangan orang yang duduk depan lagi besar dari kita sudah. Mesti himpit ke belakang runtuh kerusi baru tahu....meow.

Mari belajar duduk macam Artis
Ooooish, cara duduk pun kena belajar ke? Tapi nampaknya, ada pasaran juga la untuk orang Malaysia mengambil modul "Duduk Macam Artis" (modul terbaru). Jika artis duduk, biasanya duduk bagi tujuan diambil gambar oleh si jurugambar atau cameraman. Semuanya kena tutup, tak bole terbiar "lubang" muncul sana sini. Malu nanti terkeluar akhbar atau majalah. Cara duduk, berdiri dan memberi sambutan kena lengkap....sempurna! Kena ingat, cara duduk berbeza bagi artis wanita dan lelaki.

Tangan siapa ni menggatal?
Sebelum Kris mengakhiri entry blog ini yang tujuannya untuk SERONOK (bukan tujuan maki tapi bagi tujuan belajar), ada orang lain pula yang ingin "seronok" pula kat Kris waktu tengah asyik tulis entry ini. Eh, siapa tu ya? Peminat setia ke? Timbalan Pengerusi (VP) tu ke? Awek pelajar warga Myanmar ke? Orang gila di tepi jalan ke? Oooo, tak kisah la. Kita semua orang Malaysia, tak sihat sikap terlalu serius sampai jihad dan mesti BERFIKIRAN TERBUKA selalu. Apa-apa sahaja, sila beri KOMEN di bawah atau KLIK BANNER IKLAN (atas dan bawah). Bila orang memberi, kita terima. Bila rasa dengki, pergi la JALAN, jangan duduk ya?

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New Month, New Awakening, New World - The whole world and its people can simply be divided into 2 categories - the Self-Indulgent or Inspiring. Which are you?

2011-11-01T00:01:00.000+08:00

The days passed by so fast, it's 1111 already!
The month of November is finally here - and the numbers on the date is very lucky: 1/11/11. The number 1 connotes many auspicious elements: it means a clean slate, a new start on the first day, fresh beginnings and many more.Please NOMINATE my blog at Nominate My Blog I foresee many exciting gadgets premiering this month for all consumers to buy for Christmas and such. It's also a reminder that the year is ENDING! Questions like "Have I fulfilled all my new year's resolutions?" began to surface. As for me, I've learnt so much this year. One most important lesson I discovered is - People can be categorised into these 2 parts :self-indulgent or inspiring. Self-indulgent people always think about themselves. They are also most insecure about many things. The most glaring point is, they are usually self-delusional, thinking they are better than others or more good looking, or more superior (I know a group of men like that). How blind can they be? As for me, I was the victim of such blindness.

Are we born blind?

Blinding Self-Indulgence
I believe a lot of people in this world are "blind" to their own greed and stupidity. If not, then why all the major religions of the world confirmed this mortal human "blind"-ness? I began to realise this greed and how it translates to art. Recently I was at KLCC and witness a mini art exhibition at the main concourse area. I urge all my followers here to go and see art exhibitions. Some of the art pieces are really interesting. Of course there's one or two that is awfully self-indulgent. It's interesting to note that now I can FURTHER sub-categorise types of Self-Indulgent people into 2 main sub-categories Selfishness and Immature. The first part referring to the art pieces I've seen and the second part falls to the human weakness. That's why it's always a good thing to have a coach around to give you the third eye. (like a third honest opinion)

Disrespectful text message from a VP

Being treated like an invisible
Let's start with the immature part. Being a single artiste allows me tremendous space and freedom to philosophise the frailty and weakness of the human race. Of course I am not free from being victimised by such people, the text messages I received can be quite appaling too. For example, I've known a Vice President (VP) of a large company. This VP stays with the mother at a very high-end condominium. I was invited a few times over, and always I sense an "ulterior motive", One has to decline doing something one is not comfortable doing at the expense of compromising one's values. Imagine what shock I receive with the text message (see visual above). To ask me to sneak into the place at night and leave so early? I consider myself to be a pure artiste, one that can never accept the role of invisibility. Want to know what's my reply? Read until the end to find out whether I am an immoral man or not.

Spacious space
To clear my mind off such hypocrisy of our dreary world, I try to focus my mind on the positive and delight on the beauty of every moment. It was a pleasant surprise to witness an interesting stage - an exhibition of student artistes. I always advised my students to Visit Art Galleries. They're a source of inspiration, and it's FREE to view! The whole stage is divided into 2 sections - the product display and the art display. I suppose artistes like myself are more drawn to the art display, rather than the sponsored product, for I find the prices quite expensive. I love the walkway which is wide and spacious for visitors. Some even pose in front of the artworks and snap pictures. Lovely.

Get Hung Over
As you guys know, some art pieces - no matter whether its a film, TV series, music, commercial or whatever that is related to art, can be, in my opinion be divided either self-indulgent or inspiring. Actors too can be categorised, same as ALL living human beings, despite their vocation. Bosses who are self-indulgent will be extremely demanding and selfish, at the pretense of being "high standards". Artists who are self-indulgent will produce works that is hard for the public to understand, which requires much effort. Like the visual, the bunch of ties being hung actually raises many questions to its relevance, sometimes looking a tad childish piece of art. And a white boot at the bottom? Walking away with those ties, sir?

Get chain over
This art piece can be a tad self-indulgent to my taste for at first impression, it doesn't give me much of a sense of the aesthetics. Does the artist enjoy what he's doing? One must love one's journey towards a goal. Aspiring actors must attend auditions before getting a job. Know more how to make Enjoyable Casting. If one does not love it, the work may result to be self-indulgent. Or worst, you'll end up hating attending auditions. But I do love the way the can openers are used and pieced together in the art piece. The only self-redeeeming quality.

Conventional Safety
Some artistes tend to be on the safe side, and chose subject matter that is more neutral, and pleasing to the eye. Like this picture, it is actually a man-made lake from a coal mine, you can spot the machineries and factory at the background. But being too safe is not good. A true artiste must take chances, to think beyond the box, break conventions, not just following the conventions - doing the same thing over and over again.

Video Art
This piece of art is truly lovely, I believe it's a mixture of video and animation, what I should label as "breaking out the box"? The top of the wedding cake-like structure spills some colours right to the whole structure. It's interesting to note that there'a chair next to it. Wonder what that means....

Pure Self-Indulgence
This piece looks like a work for the self-delusional - the different facial expressions attest to the similarities of an actor auditioning for a part in a movie or show. I have a funny suspicion the face belongs to the artiste himself. Again, this work does not inspire anyone but seek to glorify the artiste himself? I wish the eyes were open, rather than closed (as to avoid identification?). At least when your eyes are open, it shows you're glorifying yourself all the way, not half-heartedly. I think people will respect you more for that. Or else it's just plain irritating to view.

Drowned World
This picture takes the viewer into the blurry world of water.
Love the concept. Totally not self-indulgent. Have you ever wonder how the artist drew the picture? In my guess, I believe she took the underwater shots and paint from the photos as reference. But it's hard for me to buy these art works, because I wouldn't know where to place it. At the living room? At the dining hall? The bedroom? Probably the best place would be at the pool-side as a warning to swimmers to swim at their own risk.

Wall Art
This isn't a wall per se, more like a divider but with glowing translucence mixed with interesting colours and words. I love the idea of even the most insignificant object at the exhibition being turned into an art form, somewhat. I love the transparent quality of this piece, of course no visitors actually stood in front of this piece to evaluate or admire it, except me (shows how "weird" I can be when appreciating an art form). Hey, I appreciate all things, even Sunlight

Distorted...Disturbed
This art pieces make me feel like I am in a form of hatred or denial within myself. At times it feels demonic and ghastly. The red, blue and green base colours seem to connote a specific emotion? Red being anger or passion. Blue being confused or panic. And of course green that suggests some form of envy. This delves into the Buyer's Psychology , but one as distorted as this is hard for me at least, to purchase any. Where could I place it? Maybe give it away to some religious places of worship to be hung at their walls or ceilings, as a sign that you better pray to escape damnation.

Hard-to-Wear Slippers
I don't know whether this is a product demo or an advertisement, but looking at the product itself - it doesn't seem to be wearable at all! Reading the copy, I discovered the product is a form of environment-friendly slippers. To walk, you need to use your front big toes to hold the little palm trees at the rear. The structure is so small, I can imagine the pain on my toes when I'm trying to walk in it! All this pain for the environment? I don't think slippers pollute the environment that seriously. Come on, seriously?

Anti-smoking Ad Campaign
Interestingly enough, advertisements are considered as an art form as well. I've worked in advertising before, and I believe it is valid. The 3 visuals show the burnt end of each object - a banana, lipstick and a teddy bear. The banana is used to connote the human sexual organ, lipstick to connote beauty and finally teddy bear for children. These are the negative effects you spread when you smoke.

My butt can hold?
From far, looks like an ice-cream cone, but look closer...This is a Do-It-Yourself kind of info poster and actual prototype of using all your discarded plastic bottles and turn it into a piece of furniture. Notice how many plastic bottles required to make a sofa-like chair and table? Then there's the styrofoam-like top to hold the seat or a flat plastic to make it into a table. Seriously, this project is for the astute and technically-superior. I wonder what will happen when I place my delicate buttocks on one of these.....surely collapse and fall flat! (haha, not that I have a big butt) But maybe I could use this cost-saving idea as stools for my students when my Coaching Classes get Bigger.

Acknowledgement - so simple, yet so rare
Want to know my reply to the VP? Being an actor in Malaysia for some time now, it's sad that our own industry people will still diss you aside like some unknown. They will still put you through the hardship of audition and all kinds of unprofessional attitude you have to put up with, giving you the treatment of a nobody. I used to let others treat me this way when I was still new, but there is a certain point when you just had enough. Artistes need to stand for themselves, especially for those with strong background. Even for new talents, they should be given equal respect too. I don't know why some people are the way they are....even in my own personal life, I need to make a stand. Acknowledgement of the self, of the person you are from others - so simple yet so rare, due to the fact that many people are so self-indulgent, constantly thinking only about themselves that may prevent any industry from growing. It's time we learn to acknowledge and respect the ideas and opinions of others. Only this way of open communication can we all truly lift each other up.

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The Burden of being a Star - 3 reasons why you should reconsider about becoming famous before it's too late..

2011-10-14T00:07:00.001+08:00

Hand grabbed by an excited sales person

Ruckus in the Mall
I'm always thankful whenever people approach me in a nice way, and mentioned that they recognised me for my acting. It's also very insightful for me to hear about which program or shows they might have seen me in. Of course, a majority of the people on the street just "sort of" recognise me from "somewhere" but never really able to pin down which program. Fair enough.

Just today, I went to KLCC to shop for a new smartphone. It takes time to shop for a good smartphone, so far I've shortlised either Samsung Galaxy SII or Iphone 4s. (I think Samsung is better, what do u think guys?) So when I entered into the shop, a few of the sales staff were already eyeing me. I've been to that shop a few times before, and am quite familiar.

Nowadays, my fans are very brave. One of the male staff suddenly took my hand and pulled me towards him quite unexpectedly. Of course, I take it lightly and brush it off as a joke. I have to understand that normal folks usually get excited when they see someone "famous" or who acted/performed on the silver screen in person. I'm quite glad that he remembered me and even specifically stated which show and what I wore for that show...wow...that show really make an impression on everybody's minds!! Now I know people remember my sexy moves more than my commercials:

Of course I am still human, and at times I feel violated in some ways, but you see, that's the thing about being "famous". In my case, I was famous (and apparently after the ruckus in the mall, still is) and all these burden comes with the territory. And for my followers reading this entry, I hope you are prepared. Being famous is not all that rosy as it seems. It's different if you are famous and rich, but unfortunately in my case, I am only famous but not in the money aspect. If you are rich, then you can hire a few bodyguards. What happen if you're not? Kill off your fantasy of becoming a star? Fret not my dear readers, read on...the 3 reasons why you should reconsider before becoming famous.

Caught one of my students trying to
snap my picture, I quickly snap back! Caught you!

1) Being photographed unknowingly...
If you're famous but poor like me, then hopefully these few pointers will help you prepare for the future. First, remember you will always be photographed. My last stint as an English Teacher cum Communications Coach for this company has really taught me to be camera-ready at all times, usually when the students are in class! You see, you cannot control people from taking pictures of you, especially in my case when I'm working! It's hard to teach and be aware of how your hair look at the same time! So how do you solve this situation? Simple - turn the camera back on them! Yes, when you noticed they are snapping away at you, you snap back their pictures.

De-sensitize your sensitive parts..
ahem, use clippers?

2) Being harassed physically and verbally...
This one comes in physical or verbal forms. Like in the case when I was window-shopping, the sales people would grab my hand or some even walked across my path like a shallow snob. During my stint as a teacher, some of my students also came near to me so as to get my "closer attention". At one point, one of the student's arm knocked right into my crotch area! You must not get angry at them, no, no, no. Sometimes, people might not realise their "mistakes". The worst scenario is to pad all your sensitive body parts with an extra layer of clothing, but who in their right mind would do that? You'll turn up to look like a bulk of cloth! Or in some extreme cases, you might want to use a clipper to de-sensitive all your sensitive parts so when you encounter such people, you'll be "dead" to their touch. Again, these are just theory and not practical in real life. So what can you do effectively and rationally? Simply say "excuse me" and move away.

Looking at me? Not handsome arr...

3) Being looked at discriminately
I am used to being looked at by people on the street. In the beginning, you may feel funny - not sure whether they're checking your walk or your butt. But then, composure is important. Don't react in anyway or awkwardly when people are looking at you. They may not know that you're a "star" or some kind of TV "celebrity", so don't fool yourself. Acting normal and relax is key. If you feel too intense when a person is looking, simply approach that person and asked "Excuse me, do I know you from somewhere". And always smile. Of course, I've experienced being looked at with an evil look, as though I'm some kind of village thrash just waiting to be get rid of. When in that scenario, I can only look straight ahead and ignore such person's stare. The thing is, we don't know what's their problem is and couldn't care a fart.

In a nutshell, being "famous" is not something good or something that you should aspire blindly. Think ahead of time, and expect the future to be totally different and not what you see in Hollywood. In Malaysia, doesn't mean you're famous you're automatically rich. What's worse, you may be used to be the poster boy for something thrashy or negative. But a lot of people dreams of becoming famous solely for the money. If you need counselling or coaching in your journey, feel free to enquire for my Artiste Training Course or Communications Courses. Kindly read my newly revised self-description (About me) section at your left hand column for more info about my services and what I do. Now you can be a follower or subscribe below:

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Come Join Me at My VIP Seat, even if you're not one - The View is Better. Good Things are Meant to be Shared. Arts is Universal, shouldn't you be too?

2011-09-18T02:46:00.000+08:00

Gettting ready for my close-up

View from my VIP seat

Day 2 - This time, I am more prepared. I dressed up nicely, and ready for any photographers who wants to take my pictures. Upon arrival, I was ushered to the VIP seat. Of course the time belt for my friend's fashion show is in the late afternoon, so it seems like I could be the only VIP in the seating. Eventually, more VIPs (some I don't recall, probably very reowned in their own industry, who knows right?) began to take their respective seats. The view from the centre is beautiful. If you are a follower of my blog, I always like to share my journey with all my readers. I don't consider myself as being exclusive or private, but when there are good things to share, why not? The VIP seat is also ideal for me to take pictures to share for my followers here, without the crew blocking my view.

Time to sow the seeds
I am so happy to know that there will be some Malay traditional dance performances. What a wonderful change from the usual catwalking and fashion display. As an artiste, I enjoy watching dancing. Even if I am not Malay, I still enjoy watching others dance. Art, to me, is universal, doesn't discriminate your race or religion. The first dance was called "Inang Capai". I enjoy interpreting the dance moves - it seems to me they are farm girls reaching to sow the seeds. Of course it helps to watch the gyrating hips of these girls. Who says tradtional dances are not sexy?

Here comes the men
For this joget dance performance, the men appeared in dazzling orange colour. From my keen observation, the performers are still the same from the last number. I love the way they twist their body to the side, and the men bending forward. There's much symbolism and background to tell, being that this piece has its roots in the farm life.

Legs Apart, Men
I am impressed by how quick the dancers changed their costumes. For example, the men was quick into tranforming to their blue outfit. For this men-only dance, I could sense how smooth and soft their hand movements were. Of course there's no hip gyrating. The men danced with giant steps forward and backward, with their legs apart.

Some Kicks and Receiving
For this joget number, I enjoy watching how harmonious the ladies and men dance with each other. The women are always dancing with their open cloth, as if to receive something. The men on the other hand were more acrobatic with their legs.

Hips Gyration and Delicate Hands Work
Love this piece of performance. The music accompanied for this dance has a nice tempo, that really puts me at least, in the dancing mood. The hips on these ladies were really outstanding, notice that they are wearing a tight sarung around their buttocks? The hand movements were also beautiful and exquisite.

Wait a minute, where's everybody?
As I sat there enjoying the traditional dance and singing, I suddenly noticed one by one the audience began to slip away. Compared to last night's show, where the performances were more contemporary and the artistes more glamorous, the audience were practically packed. But for this form of traditional performance, the audience, I suspect, were quick to get bored. Personally for me, I admire these traditional performers more, for they have to work in a group. The timing, choreography (no doubt it looks simple, but I feel they really do practise hard to make each piece flows seamlessly) and the costume change are simply more appealing. No wonder some VIPs were looking at their watches. It seems now the VIPs prefer the more fast tempo sort of shows nowadays.

Round and Round We Go
To end the traditional performances, the last dance was a fast tempo one. Notice how the ladies and men were dancing. It was a mixture of everything - hips gyrating, hands and arms works and body forward and side. Here come's my friend's fashion showcase...

Cloak and Mystery

I love the way the show started. The models are all foreigners, making this collection look more "international". When all the models are onstage, they let go of their cloaks to reveal the pieces inside. Stepping back, I do admire my friend's take on the cloak bit, giving the show some kind of drama. But as an audience, when I see the whole collection revealed already, even before the actual catwalk, I began to have some doubts....Could this be too soon to reveal? Again, the anticipation to enjoy each piece of her designs dissipate right there on the spot. Her first design possess that dramatic flair with the high back to cover the head. Almost like the Evil Queen in the Snow White fairy tale.

Sequins and Gold
This dress spells glamour. Truly amazing to see how the lights reflect on the dress. I noticed nearly all her dresses are long. I love the luxury feel to her dresses, reaching almost haute couture. But not all is perfect. The upcoming pieces are simply...

Vampire - in Red?
This dress is very sexy, and mimicks almost like the character Vampira. Of course the colour for this piece is orange. The neck covers and splits at the shoulder to reveal the skin just above the bosoms are very interesting to look at. But this dress may risk to be a bit costume-y.

Caped Crusaders
Craftsmanship is extremely important. For the purple dress (on bottom right), I'm afraid it might fell short on the cape intercrossing at the base of the neck and the bottom part of the dress, which comes off almost clownish. But I love the details on the middle part of the dress. Again, how does one gets the cape off? For the green dress on the left, the details on it is simply beautiful. Guess which is the winner?

Pregnant Faux Fur
I love the faux fur bit, but it gets too much at the lower body. The bosom is revealed, hence defeating the purpose of the fur. This is a design question which seriously hurts the potential for this piece. More thought is needed to make the whole look plausible.

Falling off
When this dress hits the runway, it was the most revealing. Unexpectedly, I didn't know that shoulder sling that holds the dress together was coming off. Notice in the next picture, how the model tried to hold her dress together from slipping...

Pretty Lovely
Sumptuosly crafted. How the laces blend and covers the kebaya making this piece looked very layered, yet not to the point of being bulky. This piece looks very slimming and surely will made the wearer feels pretty, look at the flowery head cover. The details are evident - which speaks for itself.

Extravaganza to end the Night
Finally the event is coming to a close. First, we have the extravagant head gear (left) . The layering on the hips and waist are beautiful. The gold lace supporting the upper body suggests royalty. Next, we have the see-through dress. Notice the black undies and bra.

Extravagant Catwalk
This model walks quite awkwardly. Whether it is the dress or something in between her legs, she really knows how to steal attention on the runway. During the show, I noticed a majority of the models didn't stop long enough for the photographers to snap their pics. Some of the models almost trip from their long tresses. For different designers, the models would stop at different points at the runway, causing confusion for normal audiences (like myself) to fix a spot to snap their photos. Hopefully, all these pointers would help the organisers to create a better MASiF in the future. Thanks for wanting a Communications Strategy Coach's point of view. Maybe in the future, we can work together and I'll be able to trim the rough edges for your future events. Great job everybody!

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My point of view is much in demand in fashion industry. Where's my sunglasses? An outsider's 2-day review of the MASiF 2011

2011-09-17T01:29:00.005+08:00

An Industry Outsider's View Welcomed
Apparently, my blog has been bestowed by the fashion industry as a definitive guide of insight in the industry's current trends. Plenty of upcoming fashion designers (and aspiring models) are wanting secretly for their names to be mentioned, or at least get their fashion clothes published in my blog. Again, thank you all for the trust given. Personally, I always aimed to be fair in my comments and critique on certain pieces produced by our local fashion industry. My goal is only to upgrade and improve the whole look and design of the piece, and not to downgrade anyone. A pair of industry outsider's eyes like mine are much needed to help the fashion industry to improve on their "whole look". My background is very much steeped in the film and acting world, hence it truly gives that extra dimension on any upcoming fashion designer's development process when showcasing their designs on the stage.

Undercover from the media and crowd

Surprised to be invited for the 3-day event
The day started pretty much normal for me. Since the opening of the new Isetan supermarket, I bought myself some baked goodies from Sun Mouline (they gave an extra free bun for every purchase) and some Nissin noodles. Prior to that, I also got myself a new pair of Rayban sunglasses - this one comes with ultraviolet screen and an added feature of able to see in dark places. Wow, very good. I brought my new sunglasses along to KLCC, and went to the centre concourse to enquire about the itinerary for MASiF event. Lo and behold, after I've given my name, i was quickly ushered to my seat! Why, it came as a surprise for me - since I wasn't expecting the seating for the show was today! I know my fashion designer friend Reen (under her new label) invited me for the last day of the show - but surprise, my name is stated for 3-day! I didn't expect I was invited for the first day even, and today the second day I was welcomed to attend too. Personally, I feel I didn't quite dress up to match for the occasion. Thank goodness I have my caps and sunglasses, so I put them on to hide my identity. You never know who may be watching in the crowd.....I imagine myself like some kind of Andy Warhol or Anna Wintour - both fashion enthusiasts wearing their sunglasses. People still remembers me from this commercial, and other stuff.

This boy helped me took the pic above. Thank you! Love you!

No plus-one
In a fashion event, one definitely need to dress up. Since I was ushered into it unexpectedly, not knowing what to do, so I have my cover-up myself up from head to the eyes. That way, nobody will know it's me. You see, in Malaysia, the public will not call you, they will just "know" who you are, even from a distance. And being in such a centre spot, with crowds of people surrounding me, and in my rather very leisure clothes, for a while I felt the need to be NOT at the centre of attention. I asked a cute little boy to take the picture of me. He's really cute and helpful little boy. Thank you! You really made my day. Being in such a crowded place, it's always nice to have someone who helped. Events such as these will only commence once the really important VIPs arrived. (and I noticed one of the VIP actually wearing a skirt like a Scotlands highlander) Of course this is a fashion show, and anyone can dress in anyway they desires - to be creative and express their own unique individuality. So let the fashion show begins!

High Headgears
Truly lovely design. Love the almost-hourglass shape, except it is not meant to be sexy, seeing the theme is more for the muslimah. I truly love the concept of the headgear acting as a form of headcover, as opposed to the traditional tudung. The concept is similar to the African tribe where the women are also adept at covering their heads to act as a base for carrying vessels and jars while they walk. The fabrics for these 2 lovely pieces are soft lace and some kebaya fabric.Of course, not all the collections is perfect. For example:

Bulky fabric or...pregnant?
I was surprised when this piece showed up. The first 2 or 3 pieces were beautiful. But when this one walked up the stage, I find the piece so bulky, it made the model looked pregnant! The fault could be the model's or the clothes, but either way, this piece just simply doesn't work. The model should have stretch her body way more to make the clothes look more fitting, rather than just let it hang on her body. Nobody wants to buy any clothing that made them look either fat or pregnant. (unless they want to, yikes). For the designer's part, the fabric especially at the waist level should be tighten - to give the look more balanced proportionate look.

Miss Robin Hood?
The colour choice, the individual pieces that come together - head piece, boots, leggings and baggy green "shirt"- all that just give the impression of Robin Hood - the other sex. I would advise the designer for this piece to be more focus in the silhouette produced because no part in this piece is focused in terms of its design elements. To save this piece, I would advise the designer to straighten up the head piece, to NOT let the tail-end dangled to the back, instead lift it up to suggest some form of regality. This piece just spells poorly-made.

Move away, cameraman! I want to see the cheetah-girl.
In an event with so many technical crew around, one only hopes nobody gets in your view. Unfortunately for me, this cameraman was constantly shifting his position - right in front of an audience. This is one shabby point where the organiser of this event should have placed the crew in order and neatly. It is simply too messy and disturbing, and downright rude for the crew to be in the view of the audience.

This is my Hood, dude...
Dejavu, the hood is back. This piece is simply colourful (and I love colours). It is very form-fitting, which accentuates every part of her skinny bodice. But to give you a fuller view of this piece, the cameraman is blocking the view again. Mind you, it happens many times. Maybe I should let go my sunglasses and cap - so he knows who he's blocking....this abang gemuk cengkodok (means chubby in malay)

The 20s are back!

Get your butt off my face!

Again, you'll notice the cameraman. As for the look, the hair is revealed in short. Thick earrings, with a black corset matched with a grey jacket. Lovely combination.

Safe Drag
Black is a very safe colour, hence I don't find any redeeming creative quality in this piece. Again its very conventional, the expression on the model's face is very stiff, hardening to the point of coming off as a drag. How I wish the designer will experiment more colours. Another sad use of the colour black is with this singer with holey leggings - meaning it's torn. Looks very poor, perhaps an element of rebellion?

Stormy
Want to see a storm? This piece does stir up some gasps from the crowd for its ultra high slit cut that goes all the way to the naughty part of the model. Everytime she walks and swings her long skirts, the front of her white panties was visible. Kudos for its ultra-daring catwalk. But the model seems at times to be shy and not confident when wearing the piece, and that's a drag. Show it proudly, girl. Or don't show at all.

Some Musical Interlude
The interesting thing about MASiF is its infusion between music and fashion. This concept is nothing new actually, but it's good that our country is catching onto the concept. The artiste in the picture in my opinion needs some brushing up on his singing, but it's lovely to watch him play the "angklong".

Front and Back
This is my favourite colour. The model has a great smile. At first look, the dress seems demure with a hint of naughtiness at the short length. But when she turns and walked back, you get to see the V-back, bare. Sexy and chic.

Armor for Yo Chest
This is a bit awkward combination. Seeing the bright yellow splashed across the black background is simply....out of place. I would rather there to be bits of yellow spread across the palate, rather than it concentrates on the breast - like a plate of armor.

I'm a Present
This is a lovely cute piece. Here's where the colour yellow is used to its true advantage - acting as a surprise in the form of a ribbon and head cover.

Colours - In Bloom
Finally, some bright colours. I didn't show you the individual pieces because as a single piece, it would be dull. But as a combination, it looks more interesting. I'm sure I can spot a traffic lights in there somewhere. For this collection from Madukala, the drapings are essential.

Kebayas Galore
It's a beautiful traditional clothing. Personally, fashion to me is always about looking forward. For this collection, I couldn't see any innovation on the age-old kebayas. For teenagers to wear kebaya is another thing. I feel it doesn't match the spirit of kebayas. A better, more innovative on the use of kebayas is much needed to make it more versatile for the times.

Evening Pieces, Not Couture
This collection is simple and lovely. But the name for this collection is attached with the word "couture". This is questionable since couture means it's ultra expensive, high concept and use of many materials to conjure a dream-like image. I believe evening gowns are more appropriate. Let's not get ahead of ourselves, shall we?

Motifs Central
This collection has a form of branding on all its collection. Notice the square shaped design on the skirt's bottom. The purple is beautiful. Love the faux-fur which gives an added luxury, but the motifs....is a different matter.

It's a wig, it's a glove...it's a...a...a...
This is hard to describe. The colour juxtaposition is way out - you got grey on the arms and white on the head, smacked gold right in the middle and white boots to kick. Colour coordination is key in making this look work, and sadly, it doesn't. This look only works for a fashionable nurse working in the maternity ward for the super-rich....in a distant future. Oh, my eyes hurt!

Back to the 70s!
Before the end of part 1 of this article, I want to end with a positive look. Simply love this piece! Especially the black background to accentuate the swirls of colours, almost psychedelic, reminiscent of a 70s look. The hat is creative in acting as a head cover for the muslimah as well. The neck covers is white, includes the leggings as well. This is Studio 54 gone prim.

Wait for the Part 2....to be continued.

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Future Forward - Fashion Displays, Iphone 5 craze and what's in store for everyone, can we all tell? A day's review of the future to come.

2011-09-11T00:47:00.003+08:00

That's the exciting thing about the future. Nobody can predict what will happen. That's why I love fashion, music and the movies. The future for these are always uncertain. As an artiste myself, I relish the idea of not knowing what's my next project. It could be anything! A training project I need to conduct. A movie project where I'll fly off to some unknown destination. The excitement of not knowing is simply exhilarating for me. Of course, not all can be in my position. A lot of people prefer to know when their next pay cheque will come in. Or the daily routine set clearly for them. And it's not a bad thing too. But if you claim yourself to be a true artiste, then NOT knowing the future should motivate you to move forward with all your heart, not set you back - that's what my Artiste Training Course seek to prepare each of its students.

Like yesterday, I was walking "inside myself" KLCC and found a new section of Isetan - which was recently opened. I walked around, and looked at the selection of groceries I might want to buy. There are a dozen eggs cost like RM4, some nice cafes and bakeries. I saw a selection of pastries, and decided to try the choc puffs by Sun Moulin. That's the great thing about KLCC - it is always changing. The interiors are always renewing itself. That day I have another purpose of visiting KLCC - I wanted to get myself a new Sony Walkman. The past 2 months seem like a slump - with so many of its models out of stock. And voila, on this special day, a new model just arrived! So I got hold of this new Sony Walkman, as a treat for myself. So let's start the Fall/Autumn window display review.

Defined Geometry
For this display, various forms of shapes resembling the time we were in Geometrics class. The men's clothing are more preppy, signalling this year's autumn/fall's trend. Not much adventure with colours with this season, and everybody's legs are covered from hips to ankles. But the squares and triangles will keep your eyes fixated for awhile.

Black Files and Conventional
Seems like the season signals the season for working girls - in the office! Look at the hairstyle - a cup formation at the top, like someone is going to fill her head with waters of knowledge? Or it's simply to signify her empty-headedness? For this season, the colours are simply dull and conventional. Welcome back to the office, ladies....

Jumping hoops
For this display, again the same black and white colours are back. Notice the head cover and leggings. Apparently the autumn/fall season is ripe for themes of the macabre - death for certain, life for colours - none! But the interesting aspect in this display is the circle centre-element, like hoops we use in sports to slim down our waists. The circle of life? Or jumping hurdles to reach your end?

The men for the same display fares better. The preppy look is back again, notice how tight the jeans were, and sweater with jackets tie-in.

Men of many words
This display is simply classic. The cleans lines of the jacket and trousers are ideal for the older gentleman. Notice the copious amounts of words at the background. A tactic to stop passers-by to read?

Sunset in the Office
This is another unique display, since the background is lit by a floor lamp, which acts as some sort of sunlight in this black space. The office theme is obvious, with both the models wearing clothes that are conventional.

International Time Traveller
Office men seems to dominate this autumn/fall season. Look at the giant clocks at the background, indicating time from different cities around the world. The office suit is sleek and current, allowing any corporate climber to run, rush and dominate the world.

Time to organise
Essential fall/autumn wear - presented neatly in wooden frames. The message is loud and clear. Time to organise your clothes. Jackets, t-shirts, blazers and jeans. Organise into categories, and you don't have to search again.

The Birds (crows?) are back
The black bird-shaped foreground is simply eye-catching. Of course the colour is back, indicating these shapes as crows. But look closely, and it could be other types of birds from autumn. Wooden stilts are evident - conjuring the forest space.

Gold ants for blue
Finally, some colours. But wait, aren't those some nasty ants in gold? I hate ants because it bites and leaves a nasty itch and mark on my skin. Being the autumn/fall season, our fellow model mannequins have to do some manual labor. But a little bit of colour should cheer the whole arduous task ahead.

Traditional autumn/fall
The "wayang kulit" (a form of traditional stage puppetry using light and shadows) background is lovely. The clothes are rather conventional, not form-fitting, but very loose on the figure, suggesting relaxation. The other display is richer in its set direction.

So what is the future in store for you?
The craze for the Iphone 5 debut is palpable in cyberspace - some say it's debuting this week, others say next month. Personally for me, I don't care much for that brand, because for practical reasons, I seldom make any calls. Most of the time, I receive calls rather than making them (or direct my assistants to make them) - so Apple may not find me an ideal customer. As a Communications Strategy Coach, the question above is one I always got asked - directly and indirectly. For me, I believe the future now is more self-centric. No more the conventional way of managing your staff, because your staff is not whom you think they are. Perception plays a key. As a leader, how your staff views you is just as important as does your shareholders, target markets and board of directors. I was walking down Bukit Bintang today, and noticed this giant advertising electronic board showcasing the pedestrians on the streets (view right image). It's obvious that it's meant to advertise a brand, but the brand no longer stays static, it is changing - as reflected on the public who consumes the brand. The public is now holding the power. If you reflects what they desires, your brand becomes ever more valuable and current. This is the future for now. This is the future that calls for better communication coaching for any top level executives who wants their target markets to get their message, understand them and act accordingly.

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How to identify Real Monsters in the Workplace, Classroom and simply anywhere. Even monsters have evolved, why haven't you?

2011-08-21T00:08:00.003+08:00

Is this you?

Monsters everywhere
The reality is, we all have to face "monsters" in our daily lives. Be it at the workplace, film shooting location, your home and even on the street, our country is riddled with all types of "monsters" in every shape and sizes. If you're a CEO or boss of a company, your monsters are your competitors in the market. Even normal folks are faced with monsters daily - what's more for a celebrity or public figures? Like myself, I was at the ramadan bazaar market, shopping for some delicacies, a few of the stall keepers gave me the eye and occasionally a few cat calls. Monsters came into being because of some jealousy, laziness to take any effort for themselves or discontent.

All shapes and sizes
Monsters also come to me in the form of employers. Once, a well-known telecommunications company whose HR manager called me up and offered me a top managerial position. He was sweet-talking to me about the conditions of their organisations, I've discovered even more little monsters inside the company - a total opposite of what were described by the employer. Finally I have to reject the offer. Friends can turn into monsters too, when after they got what they wanted through or from you, you never hear from them again. As an experienced Communications Strategy Coach, I've encountered my fair share of "monsters" in the forms of students, production managers, film directors, producers, CEOs, managers, peers and occasionally a few acquaintances. The most prevalent form of them are usually my students, because during class sessions, when the heat is on, and they've got to learn - true colours are hardly covered up. In fact, if you're a good experienced Coach, you will always succeed in unveiling their true colours.

My fashion students having a group discussion

Monsters in Disguise
This is an important aspect of my coaching, because I need to know who I am helping and coaching. A human being is an extremely complex creature, with layers of psychosomatic make-up that only a sharp-minded Coach can pierce through and see. Unfortunately in my case, I have like 80 of them to deal with now! In my past practices, I usually deal with one manager and CEO at a time - which is more profitable for me in terms of value, thinking back. I have encountered some strange behaviors from people from top level management too, which I won't mention here. But the most interesting insight I got is, they're all the same. Like my current group of students who aren't in any top level positions, their basic characteristic and surface psychology make-up is really not much different.

At one of my motivational sessions

My Best, Natural Proprietary Tools - Listening and Observation Skills
First, you have the talk-without-caution monster. Being a teacher and Communications Strategy Coach, my listening and observation skills are my most important assets. There are many times I would secretly lay a trap for my students, simply to make them to open their mouths to speak, and boy, do they speak. And plenty of ethically wrong and professionally unacceptable comments too. Things commented were on other people's sex, physique and personal life - are simply topics one must avoid in a professional setting. One student I regarded as smart actually commented about me, "Hey, teacher, why you never get sick? So strong like a bull. You always seem to be in the class everyday". This comment was uttered just a day before the exams. At times, I tried to put all these comments in the proper context, knowing that English is their second language. But my instinct told me - this student was hoping to escape the exams.

Lies Among Words
Second, the monster liar. This type of monster will tell lies in order to appear more intelligent in class. Their use of the English language will often sound thick in accent to give the appearance of articulation, but when you actually ask them to write, their mistakes are so glaring, the construction of the sentences are totally off-putting, you will begin to wonder if this person actually knows what he/she's talking about! And worst, it's so hard to help this person simply because he/she lies. A good teacher always check the fact twice before committing to heart. In my current case now, I am receiving lies daily through my ear.

The Surprisingly Strong Monster
The third monster is the grab-and-punch monster. This types are usually very energetic when they are working. It's a good thing to be energetic during work, but at what cost if one does not know how to control the use of one's strength? When they are placed in a learning environment, their energy just plunges into oblivion. This is because in a learning environment, I always treat everyone fair and with no bias. And the environment is always calm. In this type of neutral situation, this type of monster thought they simply have to grab the social ladder and appear to be the leader of the pack. Sometimes they would make a scene in the class by shouting or objecting to certain topics, just to keep their blood and adrenalin pumping. There was an instance I was holding a book, and this woman just grabbed the book from my hand with such heady strength! I almost tripped over the table, just to hang onto the book. Imagine that. The last time I got into such physical situation was when I was starring in the commercial, getting an awful hit on the head by a football:

Communications Strategy Coach

Temptations everywhere, and not one is worth a drop
The final monster is the one who tries to get under your skin (or bed). It happens a few times already, and it is bound to happen too, a few members of the audience who likes to know me better (outside the classroom). Personally for me, I will always decline certainly because during the duration of the class, I want to be professional and fair with everyone regardless who they are. Incidents like asking me to sign their log books with really specific details like handphone, email, address even is a big no-no for me. I understand we are all humans, and bound to get attracted with each other in a few levels, but as a Communications Strategy Coach, my objective is always very clear - to help my clients in their communications skills. Period.

So how does a Communications Strategy Coach like myself handle these monsters? Mind you, these 3 categories are just the tip of the iceberg, there are still many sorts of "monsters" in disguise below. Again, patience is still the one value a great coach would have over others. And of course, over 1000 thousand strategies and special proprietary tools an experienced coach like myself would use at my best advantage to help my clients in caging these "monsters" or at least put these monsters under leash. Do you have any monster you want to tame? The time to act is now.

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Fancy 1000 strategies in your pocket? - How to navigate & stay on top in a world full of chaotic turmoil

2011-07-30T00:04:00.005+08:00

Being the main star needs to be strategic to get on top

The world is not as you imagined
Taking a cue from Steve Jobs when he first introduced the Ipod in 2001, as Communications Strategy Coach, I always keep a variety of strategies in my pocket at any one time - 1000 songs in your pocket?. Now teaching over 80 students at any time, I have found the strategies I've learned over the years as an artiste have truly helped me in managing different people of various temperaments. Learning the hard way is not for everyone, but if you have the money, then hire a Communications Coach to cut the way shorter. The world is full of turmoil. Do not live under the delusion that everything is fine and dandy, all glamour and lights. Our world is a hostile place, squeezed by hostile corporate takeovers, bankrupted by bank mergers and changing political in-fighting for more power resulting in social unrest. Personally for me, I have been "unfortunate" to have bumped into many wrong walls - taking a look at my past various performances both in TV dramas and films. Local dramas/film productions are so full of turmoil, chaos and hardship for the actors.

Ignoring communication in an industry that should value communication at its core
Being an actor, in Malaysia, you'd faced so many hardships. For example, I've starred in quite a highly-rated medical drama series a few years back. According to a source, the episode where I've starred in had surpassed the 2 million viewer points, the highest ever of any episode for that series. After these years, let me say it was NOT a happy experience for me. For this episode, my character was to play a gay character (controversial role in a society like ours), and my co-star was someone I don't respect much in real life because he came off as someone very arrogant and selfish. Worst, I have to play the character who loved him on screen. Here's where an actor has to literally bite the bullet and act. When you watch the episode, you wouldn't even notice that I actually balked at the idea of "loving him" - at least not superficially. You really get to watch my acting skills whenever I have to face someone I dislike.

Confusion and favouritism on set
The second hardship is with the local production crew for this particular drama. The Production Manager acted all like she's the director, producer and goddamn producer - shouting at the talents, directing and using abusive words against them. And you know what - she's only 24 years old that time. Who on earth has the right mind to put such a person as the PM? Now, you'll be surprised how many of these "young punks" are put in the so-called casting director's chair or production manager, simply because they're cheap to be hired. Besides, who wouldn't want to be in the position of shouting and acting like the director? That's another problem with local producers - they like to hire cheap. But cheap only gets you cheap quality. Local producers simply don't care about the working condition - no ethics in managing people, last minute changes and throwing blame at each other instead of owning up to their responsibilities. Turmoil. Looking back, I'm thankful for that experience for it makes me appreciate my own abilities in communication skills.

Doing the best with what you have
The third hardship is the constant switching and changing of clothes and dialogue. A lot of favouritism is placed, when it comes to giving whom the most dialogues. A lot of eager actors would go after roles with plenty of dialogues under the false impression that they'll get more screen time. Like in that particular episode I starred in, I was supposed to play the character who's bed ridden in the hospital. But at the last minute, they switched the role. But good for me - because then I'm able to rest more. Many thought I would be frustrated, especially the PM, but hey, I was actually relieved! I may not get the sick role, but I'd do just as best I could with what I have. For that part, I have to bring my own clothes, same like everyone else - and look what I wore. A striking red. Got just as much attention as any other actors in that scene, if not even more.

Plan all the way to the end
Mind you, that TV drama episode was aired way before the KFC commercial came out just last year. And see who has the last laugh in the end? A lot of people may belittle you, say bad things about your looks, height and weight. But remember - only the end that matters. A lot of times you have to stand up for yourself when it becomes too intense and the injustice is too glaring to be taken lightly. A lot of my students are afraid to offend or displease the producers and directors. But that would only give them more leeway to intimidate you and use you to their advantage. Aspiring artistes, you must be strong and patient to strive on. Your time to shine will eventually come. Here's where the communication strategies learned are most important. Not only for actors, but CEOs and managers can benefit from these strategies too. To all my muslim students, friends and clients, I wish you all a Happy Fasting Month. Only do it if it makes you happy.

When one becomes a Communications Strategy Coach FULL-TIME, beware of the food intake

2011-07-22T01:09:00.003+08:00

neYes, girls and boys. It's official. I am now a Communications Strategy Coach full-time. More specifically - teaching English communication in the food and beverage industry. Before this, I have been coaching on a part-time basis, knowing how much time and energy are needed to plan. Now, this is something I have always been aware of. Food! But it can be difficult to resist food, since SO MUCH energy is dispensed everyday, teaching and coaching, persuading and laughing with my students - who mostly are inept in the English language. Not to mention, I have to outline the course details, remembering to give balance in each class in terms of the content and the manner in which I teach, so it will always be fresh and exciting in attracting these students to attend everyday. When so much energy is dispensed in all these coaching work and planning, naturally one would have to eat some food to replenish one's loss of humongous energy. And how much weight have I gained since! (almost 2kg). Check out my NEW commercial in Youtube:

Communication Barriers
First and foremost, I can't possibly joke with my international students in English, which I always did with my other local students. This group of students are more "international", being that they are not locals and English is not their first language. So you can imagine how tough it is for me to even communicate and teach the simplest terms to them. Being a communications coach, I have been able to utilise my years of "bumping into the wrong wall" experience, and come up with strategies that find its way into the minds and hearts of my new found international audience. The first week was exciting - getting to know each and everyone of them, more than 80 of them. I predict more new faces are coming.

Using Communication Strategies
Strategies mean using my interpersonal skills, experience, knowledge, even body language and facial expression to communicate and reach out to them. It's all really natural to me, since I have the experience of being an actor, so I find the skills I've learnt on set have truly helped. Of course, some of the students in the group knew of my past TV appearances, so it helps to connect and flame the camaraderie. It's all good, positive rapport! And with all the good vibes, my students would sometimes bring me some food. The first time, I didn't expect it, for I do not want to be too comfortable and take any advantage. But there are some interesting foods - like the pig patee served with bread. Creamy and really filling! Oh, the pig patee is to die for, it's all mashed up into a dry paste, in which you can spread over the bread like some butter, served with a cup of milked coffee.

Like a Professional
Later, one of my students who is in charge of supplying food (secretly) to the floor staff when they're working, decided to let me taste their traditional noodles. Glass bee-hoon in sweet, sour and little bit spicy soup, mixed together with some mushrooms and giant onions. I declined at first, for I do not want to take anybody's share, but the student insisted. She even have the food sent up to me at my class - all nicely presented like a professional chef would have done - with the steel lid cover over the bowl and white napkins and silver cutlery. Impressive.

Lunchtime is my coaching time

The timing of my work starts also clash with lunchtime, which I have to immediately head back to the training room, after a quick lunch. The area of the restaurant and bar, is thankfully packed with a few Chinese food stalls, but a tad expensive to my taste. I tried the mixed rice shop at Sg Wang food court, and I advised you guys not to eat there for dinner. Seriously, the food quality has deteriorated much. So the only available place is Jalan Alor, and even that place I don't favor much because the price. But the place is pretty packed with other specialty restaurants. One of my students passed me some shrimps and white buns as snacks to take away, which I saved it to prepare my dinner for the night. They really love me. Hopefully all the love will not be channelled to my weight gain! Ai-yai-yai, I definitely have to go for a hardy swim session tomorrow!

My Birthday Celebration - An important record of my present state of Mind and Body.

2011-07-11T22:49:00.001+08:00

A little surprise party organised by my latest batch of students

Auspicious Day on an Auspicious Year
At this day 11 July, 2011, what a beautiful day and numbering too. Of course I am referring to my birthday. As of now, I have received a total of 5 birthday wishes (more are expecting to come), 3 special gifts and 1 very good feeling - that I am guided by a greater power than myself. No money problems at the moment. Got a roof over my head. Good health. Good mind. What more could a man ask for? I believe when we ask for more, we may get it. Sometimes more does not mean it's better quality. So one simply just count one's blessings. Do you know this year, all my numbers consists of the same numbering pairs, even my age? Beautiful....

Surprised and thankful for the love received from my students

Gaining Momentum - One Goal at a Time
Career-wise, I have achieved what I've set out to do. First I wanted to be infamous, and did. Second, I wanted to become an actor, and I did. The third act, and current one, is to become a teacher, and I am now still teaching - this time so much bigger than the last batch of students. Of course, acting is still going on, but on one's birthday, one would consider taking only quality projects. I am so happy that my ex-student got a film role! He shall be a shining example of my success in coaching students who aspire to become artistes. Great job, S.Nair! Diversified skill sets are important in generating a great income. That's why joining an Artiste Training Course can be your next crucial career decision.

Some presents received - but the little Golden Pig means the most!

Love for Others
Love-wise is a bit tricky. When one has attained a certain kind of "fame", one tends to be more careful in inviting anyone into one's life. Even friendship-wise, I have learned much that even the most honest friends can be just as manipulative as the bad friends. Recently, I tried to hook up 2 of my old single friends from camp together, giving them my blessings if they were to become a couple. But they denied their relationship for some time, even when they were actually together, right in front of me - hence, indirectly giving me the impression that I am the other guy, someone to be mistrusted? It's all human nature. The pangs of insecurities constantly scratches into the minds and hearts. One can only be still, and heed these wise words "This too, shall pass..."

My birthday cake - short, sweet & delicious

Being Happy to Meet Challenges
In fact, my new stint at a famous restaurant in Changkat, has actually revitalised my fame value - this time towards the Myanmar nationals. They are an interesting lot of people - a breath of fresh air to the concept of being Asian, which encapsulates so much diversity. I may have a great challenge in front of me - educating them in the English language. But life is a series of challenges, isn't it? One must face each day with a bold and daring heart to take life by its horns and turn it into the direction one hopes will lead the next new venture. Like the Spanish bullfighter in the rings of life, hold on to your red cloth. Victory belongs to the brave.

Love is Anywhere when You Have Love Yourself
On my way back from teaching, my students gave me a surprise birthday cake. In my heart I am so very touched and thankful, for I truly teach them with all my heart, and they felt it too. My sincerity in really teaching and hoping for their advancement in the language is evident, everytime when they attended my class, I sense a kind of excitement and anticipation. Here I would like to wish all my students at the restaurant and bar a big THANK YOU.

A situation where Knowledge & Peace is not enough. A change will do you good.

2011-07-10T22:33:00.000+08:00

Like an episode in the Twilight Zone. Not a soul in sight.

Warning without basis
Yesterday I was informed by 2 of my friends not to go out from the house due to the massive rally organised by 16 non-governmental organisations. At the back of my head, I rejoiced, literally, because that would mean something big is going to happen. Of course, there was the nagging fear, spread by a lot of folks, saying that the police is going to round up the places, roadblocks and disruption of transportation lines. Images of stone-throwing, and shouts of propaganda began to fill my head. Suddenly I'm split into 3 parts - the fear in me, the bold and realisation.

Streets without vehicles. Hooray!

Need prompts me to go out
The fear in me prompted me to stay in, and not go out. I slept thru most of the day until 3pm, when I heard the police sirens outside. By then, I can see the weather outside turning dark. Sure enough, a few minutes later the rain poured. But I was tied to another more practical reason to go out, because my broadband device went conked! And that has stopped me from accessing into the internet at home. So I have to go out! In my head, I am prepared to face any obstacles.

So out I went with an umbrella and camera. In case I can snap some pictures to share here. The train didn't stop at any of the central city stations. It went right pass all the way to Bangsar station. So I went out from the station and try to soak in the atmosphere. So many men! A few women here and there. Apparently there were some people there, just to come out and watch for any commotion. Life in the city can be boring, and incidents such as today happened rarely. But everywhere is almost quiet.

The FRU making a formation to attack

Delusional people being interviewed on the news
So I took the train back, and stopped at Kampung Baru station. I walked up to the escalator and decided to stop at the coffee shop, to wait until the whole blockade is lifted. Sitting there, people were all ears when they see on the news about the rally. The crowd were really into the footage of the rally going on, but when it shows some interviews by the pedestrians giving their opinions, they just lost interest, some even ridicule. I suppose drama sells, and people are craving for it. There was this man who said how Malaysia is so peaceful, and why they want to disrupt it? He also goes on to say that they should have the knowledge first. I mean, this man must be delusional!

The aliens are out again on the streets

"A change....will do you good"
Life is never fair. What's worst, is when stupidity takes over rationality and freedom, you cannot expect people to keep quiet. I don't support rally of any sort per se. But if people want to do it, by all means. I totally respect these people out in the street doing what they feel is right. There is conviction. At least for one day, they get to feel so alive, so united with other people, making an affect, a change, some form of disruption in our day-to-day lives. Remember the Sheryl Crow song "A change will do you good"? Wow, how I feel it. The air of anticipation. Maybe now Malaysians are braver and ready for a change - whatever that may be....

My new MP4 - enjoying it so much, and it's neither Ipod or Sony. It's....

2011-07-05T02:23:00.000+08:00

Sick for 2 days....
...ZEN Creative! Yes, and I got it at a sale too. Before I delve further into this little gem, I would like to apologise for my late entry update, due to my extreme sick condition. You guys must have felt it too, the crazy extremely hot weather. Plus, I used to eat a lot of "heaty" stuff, and one of my friend invited me out for dinner and ordered me a watermelon juice, after that, it's all downhill! I was sick for 2 full days, with so little energy. And in that 2 days, I got so many things to do! What such luck. So I forced myself out from bed and went attending all the various errands for my company.

Comes with slot for removable SD Card (but max up to 4gig only)
Now back to my new MP4, I am quite pleasantly surprised to got it, for I was walking in Best Denki, new outlet opening at KLCC. They were having a sales, and suddenly I spotted this MP4. The size is only 2gig, but it has a removable SD card. The promoter was good at selling it. But there are limitation for the SD card could only carry maximum up to 4gig. So it adds up to 6gig of music storage. It was the LAST one in the store, and 2 has already been sold off.

Simple interface

Sound quality good, interface so-so
The sound quality of Zen Creative is pretty on par with Sony, with its rich bass. I am quite drawn to it. And surprised. My attraction to it must also do with its size. Fits nicely into the palm of my hand. But as I browse through the interface of the mp4, I discovered that there's no album cover to categorize each music selection into its own proper albums. The earphones are simple. Sometimes, I would have to dig the earphones deeper into my eardrums, to actually hear the music, or I have to amp up the volume.

Why do they persuade me to get the adaptor?
When I purchase this mp4, the promoter persuaded me to buy the Zen adaptor as well, and it costs like RM5. So I did. The reason she gave was the adaptor that comes with the mp4 is very short and can only be connected to a laptop. Unfortunately, the downside of using the Zen Adaptor is, after being charged, the mp4 just went blank! I just couldn't switch on the player in a normal way! Instead, I have to use a pin to poke inside the setting hole, which is pretty ridiculous for me. One important tip to remember when purchasing anything at Best Denki: KEEP THE RECEIPTS! They actually considered that as some sort of warranty, at least in the case of my mp4 purchase.

Made in Hong Kong and pretty good
But i conclusion, Zen Creative is actually a good product. If you're looking for sound quality, it is satisfactory. For interface on the screen, still very basic compared to Ipod or Sony, which are more advanced and more colourful. Transferring of music wise, it is very easy to do. But if you have a huge library of music to carry with you, then you would need to buy several SD cards and keep it with you, which is not practical. Before I purchase the Zen Creative, which was the last one in stock, I did went over to Sony Station to enquire about the arrival of their latest walkman models. Still no news. Frustrated, I'll just have to keep this Zen for company.

How to Make Casting Enjoyable - Sharing & Mentoring

2011-06-25T00:01:00.000+08:00

My ex-student and myself - in the casting

I was shopping for my own birthday gift at Undershop, and suddenly my phone rang. It's a call from a production company I had good working relationship with. They still remember me, and keep my profile with them. I am pleasantly surprised, and agreed to come for a casting. This TV series is meant for TV3, where a majority of Malay viewers watched their series. After I bought my stuff, I walked back and decided to invite all my ex-students from my Artiste Training Course to attend the casting with me as well.

Sharing info
I enjoy spreading the news of this casting, even though I was the one specially invited, I don't see any reason why I should keep this casting to myself. I love to invite all my ex-students over to even view me from a distance, or perhaps even get themselves register for the talent casting too. I hope they can learn something too from watching me. Unlike a lot of so-called "artistes" who are out there just for themselves. I really cannot understand what's the big deal of even informing other people about the casting they went. I know for one, what is meant for you, will always be yours, and no one can take it away. The more you want to keep it a secret, the more you will feel the strain and in effect affects your performance as an artiste.

Have fun joking and fooling around

An open heart equals an open mind
I believe in genorosity. What you share with others, will eventually comes back to you. Mind you, it is totally opposite from boasting. Boasting is not sharing. Boasting about your successes doesn't mean you are sharing. Sharing is very much to do with helping others. Boasting only seek to elevate yourself, which a lot of aspiring artistes do, without them knowing consciously or otherwise. It turns people off. That's why I conduct this Artiste Training Course.

Rehearse together
So one of my student came with me. I'm glad he's still gung-ho and motivated to attend castings. He told me it's what I've talked to him about the other day, so he's encouraged. We arrived at the office, and were given the script. The script was for the role of a gangster. So I give my ex-student the other role to play with me, for it helps me to rehearse as well. This gangster is actually quite a comic. And this ex-student of mine is himself quite a comical character. When we rehearsed, we had such great fun. We laughed and managed to snapped a few shots of ourselves making a fool out of each other.

So clever posing - aren't we all pretty

Laugh at yourself
The situation is where this super mom with all her superpowers. I am playing the villain, where I am laying a trap for this super mom to appear, so I can catch her and present her to my boss, so he could steal her power. It's really a funny story, where I have to be exaggerated in many sense. When the casting was on the way, the director complimented on my fluent and good spoken Bahasa Melayu. Now he wanted me to get rid of it, and use the most basic, and market-street intonation. That means I have to slur and not be articulately-correct when speaking. This I done so, with perhaps much ease and aplomb, seeing the reactions I got from the director.

Help others with their scripts too
After I was done, my ex-student was next, and I went outside of the room to wait for him. In the waiting lounge, there was another 2 talents rehearsing their scripts. When I came out from the room, they looked at me, with a somewhat rejuvenated looks on their faces. One of them told me they could feel my performance even from outside, and I took it as a compliment. With nothing to do, I introduced myself to the 2 talents, and helped them out with their scripts too. They seem to have much lengthier script, which I encouraged them that it's a good thing, because it gives them plenty of space to show off their acting skills.

So happy to be on location - enough la, time to say bye-bye

Know when to leave
They have some problems memorising the script, which is common, given that they are nervous and just got the script in hand. During rehearsals, I played the other part interacting with them, and tried to spelled out some key words to help them jog their memory. I suppose when they tried to remember the words, their expressions and gestures just gone right out the window. Of course, if they were my students, they wouldn't have that problem. But I didn't inform them that I am an acting coach, for in situation like these, we are all equals, and I do not like to impose them with my coaching practices. I understand they must be focusing on their characters, so it's best to just leave them be.